Archive for May, 2009

Saving Money in Today’s Economy

Saturday, May 30th, 2009

I don’t know about you but in today’s economy I look for ways to save money both for the ministry and personally.  One of the things I do is to buy used books when it is not for a gift. Getting used books can also be a good way to build your church library. Pastors and teachers might need books for research purposes.  Often you can find books in new, like new, or very good conditions that can well suit your purpose. Here are places I look:

  
       amazon        Half.com

Generally you will find that  more recently published books will be a higher cost.  In that case, if the price seems close to the retail cost, I might buy a new book at Christianbook.com or Amazon.com and sometimes even Buy.com.  I do some comparison shopping, remembering to figure in shipping costs from the different sites.

Another way I save money is to sell used books on Amazon.com and Half.com and through the MinTools.com site.  When the book has served its purpose, rather than sit it on a shelf to collect dust I try to sell it.  God has also blessed this ministry with books donated by people I know to sell for extra ministry income.

Used Books at Ministry Tools Resource Center

So, that’s something I do to save money in today’s economy.  If we stop and think about what we do personally,  in our churches and ministries, there are undoubtedly many other ways to save.

The Greatest Gift a Father Can Give His Children

Wednesday, May 27th, 2009

I was updating the Father’s Day Resources Page and came across a couple quotes I’d like to pass along.

Father’s Day bulletin and bookmark with the same message quotes Oswald Chambers:

“The destiny of every human being depends on his relationship to Jesus Christ. It is not on his relationship to life, or to his service or his usefulness, but simply and solely on his relationship to Jesus Christ.”

So often men tend to find their worth in achievements and how well they fulfill their roles or positions in life  … like fatherhood.  This quote emphasizes that what matters most is that you know Christ.  That leads me to the next message I came across on another bulletin and bookmark which only makes sense if the father has that relationship with Jesus. 

“The greatest gift a father can give his children is to walk in the footsteps of God.”

The father’s example will leave a much greater impact on his children than words alone could ever do.  A Pass It On Card provides an acronym for what it will take: 

D.A.D. – Dedicated And Devoted

When fathers are first and foremost dedicated and devoted to the Lord Jesus Christ they will be to their children what they should be.  What greater gift could a father give?

The Wedding is Just One Special Day

Friday, May 22nd, 2009

My niece is getting married this weekend.  I pray for her and her husband-to-be that they would have a healthy marriage. 

The wedding is just one special day.  The marriage, however, should be a lifetime partnership in God’s eyes.  I think of all the people I know who have either gotten divorced or are experiencing marriages that can be considered “silent failures.” 

The wedding is just one special day when it is easier to keep your focus on the other person.   The marriage, however, often brings a different reality.  There is so much self-centeredness in our world that mitigates against the kind of unity required to maintain a healthy marriage.  Though not specifically written about marriage, I think the words of Philippians 2:3-4 need to be practiced in marriage … as well as all relationships.

Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit, but in humility consider others better than yourselves.  Each of you should look not only to your own interests, but also to the interests of others.

Let’s not forget the verse preceeding Paul’s discussion about the marriage relationship in Ephesians 5:22-33.  Verse 21 says “Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ.”  Both husband and wife must apply Philippians 2:3-4.

The wedding is just one special day but so much time, effort, and investment goes into getting ready for that one day.  If even a portion of the attention given to wedding preparation was put into the marriage itself on a day to day basis, the statistics would probably be different.

What are we doing as a church to help couples go into marriage with this understanding and to sustain healthy relationships?  We can show good movies like Fireproof about the difference God can make in marriages but there needs to be an on-going effort to help couples.

An Umbrella for Classroom Discipline

Tuesday, May 19th, 2009

I’ve done a fair number of teacher training seminars through the years and learned that many teachers in children’s ministry find classroom discipline issues to be their number one frustration.  What I also found is that many of these teachers want a step by step play book for “fixing” the problems.  I usually cannot provide that kind of a plan.  What I can do is hand them an umbrella.  No, not a real umbrella … an analogy.

  1. They need a big picture perspective or philosophy under which all discipline should come.  This is like the canopy of the umbrella.  Without this material over the framework, or spokes, their efforts will not protect or provide shelter.  All that is done needs to come under the umbrella of God’s Word.  The Effectively Handling Classroom Discipline Workbook provides this kind of perspective.
  2. Under that canopy are spokes, the framework on which the material hangs.  These are principles that can apply to all discipline situations.  Again, the workbook will help you work through these principles but the Handbook on the Basics of Classroom Discipline can also help with that.  Every month one of the discipline tips from that book is put on the site, replacing the previous month’s tip.
  3. The umbrella with its canopy and framework won’t help unless you personally grab hold of it.  This is where the handle comes in — the specific application to your situation.  One reason I can’t provide steps to handling discipline problems is that there are so many variables.  For example, two children can engage in the same behavior but for different reasons making the application specific to that situation.

Currently one type of resource I am including for members of TrainBibleTeachers.com is a series of handouts to help with different discipline issues.  These one page tools present possible causes for each issue with resultant suggestions for each reason.  So far I’ve added handouts on:

  • Attention-Getting Behavior with 3 possible causes
  • Bringing Toys & Objects from Home with 3 possible causes
  • Constantly or Excessively Moving Children with 3 possible causes
  • Crying When Children Dropped off with 3 possible causes
  • Talking Incessantly/Inappropriately with 3 possible causes
  • Teasing & Bullying with 6 possible causes
  • When Staff Kids Misbehave with 4 possible causes

As you keep God’s big picture perspective in mind and apply the principles in ways appropriate to your situation and student needs, “rainy days” won’t have to get you drenched with frustration and despair.  If you line up what you do with God and His Word, you can depend on God for the long-range results and short-term coverage.