Archive for January, 2010

Sanctity of Human Life – What’s the Real Issue?

Thursday, January 14th, 2010

At the root of one’s view of the social issues about human life is a moral choice one makes about life.  Even deeper, however, is the choice we make about who determines morality.

The Social Issues:

abortion, human embryo research, human cloning, euthanasia, what to do with people who are disabled, etc.

The Moral Issues:  ethics 

Who should be protected and defended and who can be abused or destroyed?

Who should be given value and who can be disregarded and viewed as inferior?

Who should be treated with dignity and respect and who can be mocked or robbed of dignity?

The Deeper Issues:  authority

Do we listen to what the media tells us?  Does a plethora of propaganda make something right?

Do we go with what government allows?  Does legalization make something right?

Do we adhere to scientific theory?  Does someone’s interpretation of science make something right?

Do we hold to what seems expedient?  Do circumstances make something right?

Do we look for a source outside of ourselves?  Does God determine what is right?

How you handle the social issues are mere symptoms of your ethics.  Ethics stem from your basis of authority in making ethical decisions.  So, the real issue is how reliable your authoritative base is for making life and death decisions.

What To Do About a Mid-Week Children’s Program

Tuesday, January 12th, 2010

What to do about a mid-week children's program?Sometimes the best way to help people is to answer their questions with questions. 

That is what I did when I was asked about planning a mid-week children’s program.

Basic questions that need to be asked are:

1)  What is your purpose?

Notice I asked what your purpose “is” not what it should be.  Be honest because your actions and attitudes will eventually betray or underscore what “is.”

If your purpose is no greater than having something to do with the children while adults are meeting, you will find little motivation to put much into a mid-week program.  When babysitting or crowd control become objectives, even though it might not be communicated that way, it is easy to take an “anything will do” approach.

If, however, your purpose is truly to utilize all the opportunities you have to reach children for Jesus and to help disciple them to love and follow the Lord, you will be energized to make it the best you can with the resources you have.

Of course, the second “if” above is more in line with what your purpose should be.  What can you do to work toward a more impacting purpose?

2)  What structure will best accomplish that purpose and fit your situation? 

Structure should be an outgrowth of your purpose and realistically guided by your resources … available teachers/workers, time, facilities, etc.

If you adapt a structure simply because it is a pre-fab plan and easy to use, you might be missing the mark on what God wants to do in and through you.

If you tailor a structure that best meets your needs, you will have more potential of lining up with God’s desires and intent to work in and through you.

Of course, this doesn’t mean you can’t use somebody else’s plan or structure.  Nor does it mean that you must start from scratch and “reinvent the wheel.”  What it does mean is that you will invest much prayer and objective assessment into it.  If a pre-fab program best fits your purpose and resources, then that is what should be used.  Or, perhaps you will need to take an existing program and make some tweaks.  Maybe you will need to develop your own plan but if that is the case, then God will provide the person(s) equipped to do so.

3)  What curriculum will fit the structure?

Often the pre-fab programs mentioned under the second question above come with the curriculum for you to use.  I am listing this as a separate question, however, because too often we let the curriculum determine the structure.

If you let the curriculum determine the structure then you might find yourself frustrated as you try to make something work that doesn’t fit your resources.

If you let the structure determine the curriculum then you should be doing something that works for your situation.

A mid-week program should be a little more fun and fast-moving than a typical Sunday School or Children’s Church program.  Some churches have used Sunday School or Children’s Church curriculum for their mid-week program but if not careful, it can feel too much like school for the kids which they have been in all day prior to going to church on Wednesday evening.

Some churches use curriculum from publishing companies that use a large/small group approach.  You would need less high commitment – preparation teachers and more lower commitment - preparation small group leaders.

Some churches use VBS curriculum, using a lesson per week.  Often these types of curriculum rotate children through a number of learning stations.

The question is: What type of curriculum will best fit your purpose, the structure that grows out of it, and works with your situation?

From there it is a matter of implementation — ordering materials, recruiting teachers and workers, training them, scheduling, organizing, etc.

Why Do You Pray? – Reasons to Pray

Thursday, January 7th, 2010

I wrote an article on the MinTools.com site called Difficulty Praying? – Why We Don’t Pray that looks at reasons for difficulty in praying and also suggests what we can and can’t do if we are going to become more consistent, wholehearted, and alert in it.  In this post I would like to look at reasons why we do pray and suggest a reason better than others.

First, however, we need to realize that what we often give as reasons we fail in prayer are not always the bottom line.  They are more symptoms or excuses.  Symptoms of difficulty in praying include but are not limited to:

easily distracted  ~  tired  ~  don’t know what to say ~
angry with God  ~  too busy

The above mentioned article suggests what might be at the root of those symptoms.  To counteract these issues we need to work on the following three reasons to pray:  Commands, Commitment, Communion

Commands:  Praying is a matter of obedience.
Commitment:  Praying is a matter of an undivided heart.
Communion:  Praying is a matter of relationship.

If you are out of fellowship with God, it is easier to disobey commands.  Duty alone might not keep you praying.  And, if you do pray out of obligation, that is not going to solve the problem of focus.

If you are a new believer, you are learning to be more committed.  If you are a long-time believer, you still haven’t arrived and if you think you have, your pride can get in the way of praying.  Devotion alone might make you want to pray and might get you on the right track to a better prayer life but won’t necessary bring life and energy into it. 

If you maintain that first love referenced in Revelation 2:4, your communion with God provides continued motivation.  Delight in the One to whom you pray, provides a passion to pray that supersedes all other reasons to pray.

Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your might.  This is the first and greatest commandment. (Matt. 22:37-38)

If you love me, you will obey what I command. (Jn. 14:15)

When you pray because you delight in the Lord, duty and devotion are there but they are not your main focus.  HE is.  When praying is about relationship, you want communion with God.

For more on prayer, click on the following links:

Difficulty Praying? – Why We Don’t Pray

How Can We Not Pray?

Prayer Ministry – Online Training

Prayer Ministry Manual

Prayer Bits Devotional Guide

More Resources on Prayer

Homelessness: How to Get Your Church Involved

Monday, January 4th, 2010

Homelessness is broad and far reaching.  As an individual believer or church, you might feel there isn’t much you can do. 

Homelessness demands a lot of resources.  You might feel you have enough problems of your own. 

Homelessness takes many of us out of our comfort zones.  You might have fears and insecurities about involvement.

Reasons not to get involved will abound so you need to just begin.  Here’s a process for getting your church involved:

  1. Promote an awareness of the causes and  solutions of homelessness.   Look at it from a biblical perspective.  — Educate people about homelessness.
  2. Partner with other ministries and community programs through giving of time, finances, and other resources.  Encourage individual giving but also set the example as a church and an easy path for individuals to give.  — Expose people to homelessness.
  3. Present or provide opportunities for people to help both in preventing homelessness and assisting those who are homeless locally and beyond.  Encourage everybody to do their part in ways that fit with their gifting and skill sets and you will make greater inroads into motivating them to get involved.  — Engage people with the homeless.

Note the process:
       Educate, expose in less threatening ways, and then engage.