Unlock the Door to Unity by Guarding Your Heart

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Keys to Church Unity - Guard Your Heart“If … then …” statements provide conditions for something to happen. We find four conditional statements for unity in Philippians 2:1-2, thus providing us with keys to unlocking the door to unity. Click on the links below to previous posts on the first three conditions. Here we conclude this series by looking at the need to guard our hearts.

1) Function from your position “in Christ”.
2) Know and rely on God’s love.
3) Walk together in the Spirit.
4) Guard your heart.

To Experience Unity We Need to Guard Our Hearts

Philippians 2:1-2 states that if there’s “any affection and compassion” then we can be “like-minded, having the same love, being one in spirit and of one mind”. The original Greek words for affection (splagchnon) and compassion (oiktirmos) both relate to our inwards parts (bowels, heart, etc.). These two words seem interchanged in their various uses, both signifying the seat of our strong emotions —- what we metaphorically call our heart. We are to respond to one another from the core of our being.

Think of Jesus. He saw a need and then felt compassion which caused Him to respond appropriately (Matt. 9:36; 14:14; Mk. 6:34). Jesus felt compassion because of what was in His heart — love for people. Also remember what Jesus said in Luke 6:45 — “A good man brings good things out of the good stored up in his heart, and an evil man brings evil things out of the evil stored up in his heart. For the mouth speaks what the heart is full of.”

Failing to Nurture and Watch Over Our Hearts with All Diligence Leads to Trouble

Consider a few ways our relationship with God and others could be affected:

  • If we don’t guard our hearts, we’ll quickly be pulled away, distracted from our position in Christ (1 Cor. 7:35; 2 Cor. 11:3; 1 Pet. 5:7-8). We’ll see others through our own distorted lens rather than how God sees them.
  • It’s possible we’ll lose our first love for God (Rev. 2:3-5) and simply go through the motions which won’t get us through the hard times. Rather than having love and devotion for God and compassion toward others, we’ll live for self.
  • We’ll be so consumed with ourselves that we no longer walk in the Spirit which will quench His work in our midst (1 Thess. 5:19). We’ll be part of the problem rather than the solution.

Is it little wonder we’re commanded to “Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it” (Prov. 4:23)?

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Unlock the Door to Unity by Walking Together in the Spirit

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Keys to Unlock the Door to Church Unity

Do you want your church to experience unity? If so, you can unlock the door to unity by functioning from your position in Christ, knowing and relying on God’s love, and guarding your heart. Now let’s see how walking together in the Spirit helps.

To Experience Unity, We Need to Walk Together in the Spirit

The Church is made up of people from different walks of life, backgrounds, giftings, and personalities. This will inevitably lead to disagreements as we come together with our own sets of perspectives and preferences. We need help outside of ourselves to rise above conflict and remain united.

In addition to being a diverse group of people, we’re all fallen human beings who don’t always get it right. Too often our self-centered human nature gets in the way. So, we read, “What causes fights and quarrels among you? Don’t they come from your desires that battle within you?” (James 4:1). The solution? — “Walk by the Spirit, and you will not gratify the desires of the flesh.” (Gal. 5:16)

The Spirit enables us to “put on the new self, created to be like God in true righteousness and holiness” (Eph. 4:24). Rather than “indulge the flesh”, we will “serve one another humbly in love” (Gal. 5:13).

Walking Together in the Spirit Leads to Fellowship

Philippians 2:1-2 provides keys to unity, one being the role of the Holy Spirit. — “If there is any fellowship of the Spirit” then we can be “of the same mind, maintaining the same love, united in spirit, intent on one purpose.”

God wants us to “live in harmony with one another” (Rom. 12:16, NIV), also translated as being “of the same mind toward one another” (NASB). That will happen as we find our commonality (fellowship) in Christ as we walk together in the Spirit. Without fellowship, we don’t have unity, only outward conformity. If hearts remain unchanged, not truly melded together in love, it probably won’t last.

The title of this post adds the word “together” to our need to walk in the Spirit. As an individual, we can make every effort to be at peace with others (Rom. 12:18) as we walk in the Spirit but we can’t make them do the same. True unity requires a mutual coming together in fellowship of the Spirit.

Leaders can steer the church toward Body Life as God intends for us but must also steer the church toward God’s power to get there.

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Unlock the Door to Unity with God’s Love

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To unlock the door to unity we need heed the Apostle Paul’s words in Philippians 2:1-2.
Keys to Church Unity - God's Love

Therefore if there is any encouragement in Christ, if there is any consolation of love, if there is any fellowship of the Spirit, if any affection and compassion, make my joy complete by being of the same mind, maintaining the same love, united in spirit, intent on one purpose. (Phil. 2:1-2, NASB)

We already looked at the first key, based on the “if” phrases, that of functioning from our position in Christ. Here we take the challenge to embrace the “consolation of love” (Phil. 2:1).

To Experience Unity We Must Learn to Truly Love One Another

If we are going to remain united through the failings of one another and strong differences of opinions, we need unconditional love. That’s a love that perseveres, that will not fail. It’s a love that responds with patience and kindness, not anger. That kind of love isn’t self-seeking but rather seeks to honor others. It let’s go of pride and forgives.

This unconditional love, described in 1 Corinthians 13, comes from God. Human love, that which we muster up within ourselves, is insufficient for us to remain united. Only God’s love will enable us to break through the walls and address the feelings of one another without attacking the person. If we’re going to love each other this way, we need to “know and rely on the love God has for us” (1 Jn. 4:16). We can only love because He first loved us (1 Jn. 4:19).

Loving One Another Unconditionally Leads to Comfort

Paul referred to experiencing unity “if there is any consolation of love” (Phil. 2:1). Another word for consolation, comfort, may help us understand this result of loving one another. Love let’s us know that it will be alright, that we’ll still be loved and accepted. We’ll still belong. We’ll be forgiven. That’s comforting.

Having such assurance tends to motivate. It’s worth the risk because it takes the fear out of being “united in spirit, intent on one purpose” (Phil. 2:2). — “There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to do with punishment. The one who fears is not made perfect in love.” (1 Jn. 4:18)

Make your purpose as a Church to “love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind” and to “love your neighbor as yourself” (Matt. 22:37-40). Then you will unlock the door to unity.

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Unlock the Door to Unity from Your Position “in Christ”

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Divisiveness describes our world today, which sadly also creeps into our churches. We can’t function like the world, from a political stance of pride and prejudice, and expect to experience the unity described in Scripture. We must function from our position “in Christ.” Therein we find encouragement and the building up of one another, rather than reacting toward one another with anger, deceitfulness, and manipulation.

Learn from Philippians 2:1-2

The Apostle Paul gave the Philippian church four conditions upon which unity would be based. Notice how the word “if” occurs four times.
Keys to Church Unity Includes Functioning from our position in Christ

Therefore if there is any encouragement in Christ, if there is any consolation of love, if there is any fellowship of the Spirit, if any affection and compassion, make my joy complete by being of the same mind, maintaining the same love, united in spirit, intent on one purpose. (Phil. 2:1-2, NASB)

This post will zero in on the first “if” with subsequent posts looking at the other keys to unity.

To Experience Unity We Must Function from our Position “in Christ”

The first “if” points to our position “in Christ” — “if there is any encouragement “in Christ” (Phil. 2:1). According to Ephesians 2:6, God has “seated us with Him in the heavenly places in Christ Jesus.” When we look at life from that position, we see things differently than when we are right in the fray of it all. We see the big picture, not merely the piece that affects me.

So much of the divisiveness comes from wanting our own individual ways rather than what’s for the good of the whole and most importantly for what honors and glorifies God. If we step out of ourselves and look at life through the eyes of Jesus, our hearts begin to change. We’re willing to sacrifice our own agendas. — “In your relationships with one another, have the same mindset as Christ Jesus: Who, being in very nature God, did not consider equality with God something to be used to his own advantage; rather, he made himself nothing by taking the very nature of a servant, being made in human likeness. … he humbled himself by becoming obedient to death …” (Phil. 2:5-8)

Functioning from Our Position in Christ Leads to Encouragement

Face it: The Church is filled with human beings. We won’t always see eye to eye. Leaders will sometimes fail. People will disappoint. We can still be encouraged despite the blemishes when we look at the Church as it is “in Christ”. Then we will no longer focus on all its flaws. We will see the Church as God sees her “in Christ” — dearly loved, His precious pride. When we see the Church from His vantage point, then we can come alongside (paraklesis) of each other in Him. We will speak the truth in love, not anger and disgust, spurring one another on rather than tearing each other down.

Reality tells us we won’t always agree but “in Christ” we can still come together. We will seek to get on page with Him, not pull others to our side. Then, even if things don’t go our way, we can rejoice together and move forward.

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Are Your Decisions Biblically or Personality Based?

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God’s Word informs us of what we need to do to ensure that we make wise and godly decisions. (Be sure to read: Biblical Tips for Decision-Making) The question we must ask is if our personalities are getting in the way of biblically-based decisions. We need to get beyond ourselves when making decisions and align with God and His Word.

Decisions Biblically Based rather than Personality Have a Lamp to Guide the Way

Let’s heed the warning, “Do not be wise in your own eyes” (Prov. 3:7). Rather, “in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight” (Prov. 3:6-7). We do that as we come under the guidance of His Word which “is a lamp for my feet, a light on my path” (Ps. 119:105).

Understand How Your Personality Can Affect Decision-Making

When we understand how our personalities might sway decision-making, we can take a step back and recalculate where needed.

  • Are you very analytical? (melancholic, C in DISC)

If so, your decisions will tend to be well thought through but you could slow down the process by too much deliberation and frustrate others because of it if not careful.

  • Are you more intuitive, going by feelings or circumstances? (sanguine, I in DISC)

If so, you might not be getting all the facts in making decisions and miss the mark.

  • Do you tend to make rash decisions? (choleric, D in DISC)

If so, your decisions might at times be a bit premature, sometimes what God wants eventually, but not always, and you could ignore the wise input of others if not careful.

  • Do you tend to put off making decisions? (phlegmatic, S in DISC)

If so, your procrastination could make decisions a bit late for averting unnecessary problems or more work than necessary.

  • Do you tend to look for creative alternatives? (melancholic, C in DISC)

If so, you can bring some fresh ideas to the table but must learn to release those ideas to God and not sulk if they aren’t used.

  • Do you tend to look for what works in the moment? (sanguine, I in DISC)

If so, you might be missing the big picture effect of your decisions.

  • Do you tend to look for what conforms to what you’ve done in the past? (phlegmatic, S in DISC)

If so, you might get stuck in traditions and miss out of where God wants to take you.

  • Do you tend to want to take risks? (choleric, D in DISC)

If so, you might experience new and innovative ideas but need to make sure it’s a faith risk guided by God.

  • Do you tend to want to play it safe? (phlegmatic, S in DISC)

If so, you might avoid conflict and danger but you might also be failing to exercise faith in God’s ability to do the extraordinary.

  • Do you tend to aggressively stand up for your decisions, debating any who oppose you? (choleric, D in DISC)

If so, you might get your way but in the process alienate people.

  • Do you tend to quickly cave in to those who oppose you? (phlegmatic, S in DISC)

If so, you might be putting people’s desires above God’s in your compromising.

Decisions Aligned with God and His Word are So Much Better

We need to acknowledge how our personalities might negatively or positively affect the decision-making process and follow a process that is biblically based. That kind of decision making aligns with God and His ways. He assures us that “as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways and my thoughts than your thoughts” (Isa. 55:9). Our ways may seem good but His ways are so much better.

What are you using as a grid for making decisions? What guides your decision-making process?

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Biblical Principles for Decision-Making

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We make a lot of decisions each day. How can we know if we’re making the right decisions? — When we follow principles laid out in God’s Word, we have the help we need for decision-making.

An Acrostic Filled with Biblical Principles to Help with Decision-Making

Conclusions about making decisions can be drawn through the following Scripture verses leading to principles we can apply to the decision-making process.

D – Depend on the Lord to guide you, not on your own understanding. (Prov. 3:5-6; Ps. 28:7; Phil. 2:13)

E – Evaluate the effect your decision will have on others, not just on yourself. (Rom. 14:19-23; 1 Cor. 8:9; 10:23; Eph. 4:1-3; Phil. 2:3-4; Heb. 13:16)

C – Conform to the Lord, not to the world or what you think. (Josh. 24:15; Prov. 14:12; 16:25; Matt. 6:24; Rom. 12:1-2; 1 Jn. 2:15)

I – Insist that all be done to the glory and honor of the Lord, not simply what is convenient or pragmatic. (Matt. 5:16; 1 Cor. 10:31; Col. 3:17)

S – Submit to the Spirit’s working, not your own efforts or desires. (Jn. 16:13; Gal. 3:3; 5:16-23; Eph. 4:30; 5:15-18; 1 Thess. 5:19)

I – Imitate and promote the goodness, love and integrity of Christ, not even giving the appearance of evil. (Rom. 13:8, 10; Eph. 5:1-4; Phil. 1:20; 2:14-15; 1 Thess. 5:22-23; Titus 2:7-8; 1 Jn. 4:11)

O – Obey what has already been written in God’s Word, not compromising and going contrary to Truth. (Ps. 1:1-2; 119:105; 2 Tim. 3:16-17; Heb. 4:12; 5:14)

N – Nurture your walk with the Lord so He has first place in your life, not living merely to please yourself or other people. (Prov. 1:7; 9:10; 14:27; 19:23; 23:17; 2 Cor. 10:5)

S – Seek after God for wisdom, exercising faith in Him and His ways, not interpreting life through your own grid or comfort zone. (Prov. 2:1-11; Phil. 4:6-7; Col. 1:9-10; Heb. 11:6; James 1:5; 1 Jn. 5:14)

How Confident are You in the Decisions You Make?

Decision-Making Principles
The more we apply the above principles to our everyday lives, the more confident we can become that we will make the right choices. To help, print this PDF and take time to read through the Scripture for each point. Revisit it regularly, particularly if you struggle to make the right decisions. You can even use it to guide your prayers, asking the Lord for help, especially with the principles you struggle to follow.

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