Prepared to Face Temptation in Ministry?

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Just because we serve in a Christian environment doesn’t mean we won’t encounter potential for doubts or breaks in integrity. Prepare to face temptation. Even our Lord Jesus was tempted (Matt. 4:1-11).

Types of Temptation in Ministry

We learn of it in the news: Pastors engage in adultery. Youth leaders sexually abuse teenagers. Treasurers or other ministry staff get caught embezzling. Maybe you feel you would never give in to those kinds of sins but given the right circumstances, the temptation may present itself.

Not all temptations have dire consequences so we may not be as prepared to resist things like …

lying to save face.
taking shortcuts to make your life easier.
bragging to make yourself look good.
gossiping to make others look bad.
etc.

What to Remember to Be Prepared When Tempted

Be Alert and Sober-Minded, Prepared for Temptation

We have an enemy, the devil, looking for someone to devour (1 Pet. 5:8). To destroy the work of God, he’ll piggyback on our sin nature, putting temptation in our way. Remember that we don’t have to give in to flesh and the devil. To resist, however, we must stay alert and keep submitting ourselves to the Lord in all situations (1 Pet. 5:8-11). Though temptation is “common to mankind”, we have a faithful God who knows what we can bear and provides a way out (1 Cor. 10:13).

Since we still have that old sin nature, there will unfortunately be times we forget to pull on His strength and provision and give in to temptation. Again, we must remember that we have a faithful and just God. “If we confess our sins,” He “will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness” (1 Jn. 1:9). That doesn’t mean we won’t face consequences so the objective should always be to stay alert and keep submitting ourselves to the Lord in all situations, so we don’t yield to temptation.

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Prepared to Face Conflict?

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Just because we serve with other Christians, doesn’t mean we’ll always get along and agree with each other. Prepare for possible conflict.

Reasons We Need to Be Prepared to Face Conflict with Fellow Christians

Think of the mix of people in your group. We come together with …

different personalities and personal styles which leads to different approaches.

varying backgrounds which means varying preconceived ideas.

Conflict When We Fail to Walk by the Spirit
Add to this mix our self-centered human nature which wants its own way, and we’re bound for conflict if any among us fails to walk by the Spirit.

What causes fights and quarrels among you? Don’t they come from your desires that battle within you? (James 4:1)

What to Remember When Facing Conflicting Approaches and Ideas

God designed the Church to best function when we bring all of our differences together and learn from one another. We grow through the contribution of each part (Eph. 4:16). With this perspective, we work through our differences rather than let them divide us. For that to happen, however, we need to put on the new nature (Eph. 4:22-27). Then we will heed the exhortation to “Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others.” (Phil. 2:3-4)

We can’t control the words and reactions of others. While we do have a responsibility to help them see the error of their ways, they are ultimately accountable for what they do (Gal. 6:1-5). God doesn’t expect us to “fix” others but rather to encourage and warn as needed (1 Thess. 5:14). Be prepared to face conflict by remembering this verse about your personal responsibility: “If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.” (Rom. 12:18)

When faced with conflict, our attitudes and emotions can get in the way of resolution. Remember these verses about the need to guard our heart (Prov. 4:23) in conflict: “Whoever claims to love God yet hates a brother or sister is a liar. For whoever does not love their brother and sister, whom they have seen, cannot love God, whom they have not seen. And he has given us this command: Anyone who loves God must also love their brother and sister.” (1 Jn. 4:20-21)

For additional help dealing with conflict, check out these resources: Conflict Management & Resolution Resources

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Prepared to Face Obstacles?

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Just because we serve the Lord doesn’t mean all will go well. Be prepared to face obstacles along the way.

Be Prepared to Face These Types of Obstacles in Ministry

Sometimes ministry will affect us personally when we find it …

  • demanding, often inconvenient.
  • stretching, taking us outside of our comfort zones.

Sometimes we will face limitations like …

  • a lack of resources.
  • people who don’t want to grow spiritually.

Sometimes we will meet with resistance from people who ….

  • don’t want change.
  • disagree with us.

What to Remember When Facing These Hurdles

We Will Face Obstacles But Trouble Doesn't Have to Overtake Us
If serving for any length of time, you undoubtedly experienced at least one, maybe even all, of the above scenarios. If not, you probably will at some point so prepare yourself for this reality.

Even Jesus acknowledged, “In this world you will have trouble” (Jn. 16:33). Obstacles, however, don’t have to stop us from serving. Jesus went on to say, “But take heart! I have overcome the world”.

We need to remember that God doesn’t leave us to our own strength or wisdom to hurdle these roadblocks. Consider memorizing the following Scripture verses so you can readily reflect on them and be prepared to obstacles.

To keep discontentment and discouragement from taking over, pull on the strength God provides to rise above.

Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go. (Josh. 1:9)

I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want. I can do all this through him who gives me strength. (Phil. 4:12-13)

To keep from making obstacles even worse, pull on the wisdom God provides.

Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight. (Prov. 3:5-6)

If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you. (James 1:5)

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Recruitment Blues? – Put Yourselves in Each Other’s Shoes

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Many churches have problems recruiting. We might be quick to fault people’s busy lives or lack of spiritual maturity, but is it always their fault? Perhaps we should put ourselves in each other’s shoes. Both ministry leaders trying to recruit and the people they seek to recruit can experience recruitment blues. The recruitment problem may go both ways. We need to understand each other’s perspective.

Put Yourself in Each Other’s Shoes

Imagine being a ministry leader who can’t get enough people to serve. They feel a weight of responsibility for effective ministry but can’t do it without enough volunteers. What are they to do? Do they discontinue programs, combine classes, etc.? How do they accomplish other responsibilities when they must put so much effort into recruiting? Should they resort to begging or bribing people to serve? Imagine their frustration. — How quick would you be to get discouraged when you can’t get enough people to volunteer?

Now imagine being a church attender constantly sought after in recruitment efforts. They may feel manipulated, guilted, or coerced into serving. Perhaps they don’t feel their time, needs, and interests matter. Imagine their frustration. — How quick would you be to get discouraged about the value of serving due such recruitment efforts?

Some Reminders When it Comes to Recruitment Blues

Roleplaying to see how each side feels, leads to heart reminders we all need.

Ministry Leaders: The way you approach recruitment affects people’s opinions about serving and the effectiveness of recruiting. Be careful to approach recruitment with integrity and with high regard for people. — “Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it. – Give careful thought to the paths for your feet and be steadfast in all your ways.” (Prov. 4:23, 26)

Read: Motivating People to Serve

Church Attenders: Serving is God’s idea. Your first concern should be loving and glorifying Him, regardless of how your church handles recruitment. Make it about the Lord. Anything done in His name is worthwhile! — “Never be lacking in zeal, but keep your spiritual fervor, serving the Lord.” (Rom. 12:11)

Read: Reasons for Serving

Help Getting Beyond Recruitment Blues with Staffing Ministry Manual
For help getting beyond recruitment blues, check out the Staffing Ministry Manual. Therein you’ll find help with recruiting and much more to help you get the right people into the right ministry at the right time.

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Realistic Expectations in Ministry

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Realistic Expectations Say We Will Have Trouble But
We tend to go into ministry with expectations but are they realistic expectations? Our expectations may be too high or too low. Jesus, however, gave His disciples a more realistic perspective. He warned them of pending trouble as they served but also pointed to hope. — “I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world.” (Jn. 16:33)

Going into Ministry with Expectations That Are Too High

Ministry will not be problem-free. If we set our expectations too high, expecting that everything will run smoothly and that everyone will accept and agree with us, then we are in for some surprises that might disillusion or discourage us, even cause us to quit.

Jesus warned the disciples of troubles so they could maintain perspective when when difficulties came. Peace in the midst of troubles would be possible “in Him”.

Going into Ministry with Expectations That Are Too Low

While we will face problems, ministry will not be filled with insurmountable problems. If we go into ministry with expectations set too low, it will very likely lead to half-hearted efforts.

Ministry will have both ups and downs, but we can make it through and even thrive regardless of the circumstances. Such realistic expectations are based on two words Jesus spoke in John 16:33 — “in me”. We can rise above because He is the Overcomer!

Going into Ministry with Realistic Expectations

Realistic expectations are essential to our peace as we wade through troubles we face in ministry. Our perception affects our level of commitment, as well as how we view and treat those we serve. If we maintain realistic expectations, we’ll be able to diligently serve with joy in our hearts regardless of the circumstances.

Realistic expectations demand faith. Though we acknowledge the potential for troubles in ministry, we don’t stop there. Jesus continued, “But take heart! I have overcome the world.” With God all things are possible. Do we truly believe Him?

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Developing Future Church Leaders: The Precedence

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Everything Written Teaches - Find Precedence as well as Commands
God inspired writers to record various events in Scripture for our learning. — “For everything that was written in the past was written to teach us, so that through the endurance taught in the Scriptures and the encouragement they provide we might have hope.” (Rom. 15:4) — The word “everything” takes us beyond the commands of Scripture to examples or situations. We may not find a specific command for everything we do, like developing future church leaders, but we do find precedence in the Word to guide us.

The Precedence for Making the Development of Future Leaders a Priority

While Scripture doesn’t specifically command us to make the development of future leaders a priority, it does give precedence for it. Throughout Scripture we find examples of how God used someone to develop a future leader. The process and the time involved might have varied but the precedence to make the identification and training of future leaders a priority comes through.

Look at Joshua emerging from Moses’ leadership and Elisha from Elijah. Into the New Testament we read about Paul with Timothy. For the greatest example of leadership development, look at Jesus with His twelve disciples.

The Precedence for Identifying Future Leaders

Consider the Old Testament examples cited above for help identifying leaders. God spoke to them about who would be their successors.

So the Lord said to Moses, “Take Joshua son of Nun, a man in whom is the spirit of leadership, and lay your hand on him.” (Num. 27:18-23)

The Lord said to him …. anoint Elisha son of Shaphat from Abel Meholah to succeed you as prophet … So Elijah went from there and found Elisha … and threw his cloak around him. … Then he set out to follow Elijah and became his servant. (1 Kings 19:15-21)

Into the New Testament, we find that the Apostle Paul noted something special in Timothy, having received input from others about him. Paul knew this young man had potential.

Paul came to Derbe and then to Lystra, where a disciple named Timothy lived, whose mother was Jewish and a believer but whose father was a Greek. The believers at Lystra and Iconium spoke well of him. (Acts 16:1-5)

Let’s not forget Jesus. Though God in the flesh, Jesus prayed prior to choosing the twelve.

One of those days Jesus went out to a mountainside to pray, and spent the night praying to God. When morning came, he called his disciples to him and chose twelve of them, whom he also designated apostles. (Lk. 6:12-13)

The Precedence for Training and Equipping Future Leaders

Looking at the previous examples, we see that all the future leaders went through a training phase that helped develop them as leaders — mentoring, apprenticeship, discipleship.

Joshua: One of the twelve sent to spy out the promised land (Num. 13:16), Joshua also served as Moses’ aide (Ex. 24:13; 33:11), seeing firsthand what it meant to lead the Israelites. God told Moses to “commission Joshua, and encourage and strengthen him” (Deut. 3:28) to prepare him to succeed Moses as leader.

Elisha: He likewise spent time at his mentor’s side, as he followed Elijah and became his servant (1 Kings 19:19-21), remaining committed to the end. When Elijah asked what he could do for Elisha before being taken from him, Elisha replied, “let me inherit a double portion of your spirit” (2 Kings 2:1-12). Having spent time with Elijah, Elisha knew the power of God.

Timothy: The Apostle Paul forged a relationship with Timothy, calling him “my dear son” (2 Tim. 1:2; 2:1). Timothy received much verbal and written instruction (2 Tim. 1:13) from Paul, as well as an example to follow (2 Tim. 3:10-11). Paul exhorted Timothy to in turn mentor others. — “You then, my son, be strong in the grace that is in Christ Jesus. And the things you have heard me say in the presence of many witnesses entrust to reliable people who will also be qualified to teach others.” (2 Tim. 2:1-2)

The Disciples: The twelve disciples had the privilege of spending three years in the presence of Jesus, learning from Him and then being sent out. — “He appointed twelve that they might be with him and that he might send them out to preach and to have authority to drive out demons.” (Mk. 3:14-15)

Key Point in Developing Future Church Leaders

As we develop future church leaders, let’s also take note of one more important point seen in the precedence of these biblical examples. Leadership transitions came after development of those leaders through mentoring, apprenticeship, and discipleship. Yet, they weren’t to rely on their training but rather on the God who would be with them.

God commanded Joshua, “Be strong and courageous, for you will bring the Israelites into the land I promised them on oath, and I myself will be with you.” (Deut. 31:23)

After picking up the cloak Elijah left behind, Elisha struck the water with it and asked, “Where now is the Lord, the God of Elijah?”, and the water divided (2 Kings 2:13-14).

Paul told Timothy, “Guard the good deposit that was entrusted to you — guard it with the help of the Holy Spirit who lives in us.” (2 Tim. 1:13-14) and “You then, my son, be strong in the grace that is in Christ Jesus.” (2 Tim. 2:1)

Jesus commissioned His disciples to go and make disciples, saying, “And surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age.” (Matt. 28:18-20)

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