Unlock the Door to Unity by Walking Together in the Spirit

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Keys to Unlock the Door to Church Unity

Do you want your church to experience unity? If so, you can unlock the door to unity by functioning from your position in Christ, knowing and relying on God’s love, and guarding your heart. Now let’s see how walking together in the Spirit helps.

To Experience Unity, We Need to Walk Together in the Spirit

The Church is made up of people from different walks of life, backgrounds, giftings, and personalities. This will inevitably lead to disagreements as we come together with our own sets of perspectives and preferences. We need help outside of ourselves to rise above conflict and remain united.

In addition to being a diverse group of people, we’re all fallen human beings who don’t always get it right. Too often our self-centered human nature gets in the way. So, we read, “What causes fights and quarrels among you? Don’t they come from your desires that battle within you?” (James 4:1). The solution? — “Walk by the Spirit, and you will not gratify the desires of the flesh.” (Gal. 5:16)

The Spirit enables us to “put on the new self, created to be like God in true righteousness and holiness” (Eph. 4:24). Rather than “indulge the flesh”, we will “serve one another humbly in love” (Gal. 5:13).

Walking Together in the Spirit Leads to Fellowship

Philippians 2:1-2 provides keys to unity, one being the role of the Holy Spirit. — “If there is any fellowship of the Spirit” then we can be “of the same mind, maintaining the same love, united in spirit, intent on one purpose.”

God wants us to “live in harmony with one another” (Rom. 12:16, NIV), also translated as being “of the same mind toward one another” (NASB). That will happen as we find our commonality (fellowship) in Christ as we walk together in the Spirit. Without fellowship, we don’t have unity, only outward conformity. If hearts remain unchanged, not truly melded together in love, it probably won’t last.

The title of this post adds the word “together” to our need to walk in the Spirit. As an individual, we can make every effort to be at peace with others (Rom. 12:18) as we walk in the Spirit but we can’t make them do the same. True unity requires a mutual coming together in fellowship of the Spirit.

Leaders can steer the church toward Body Life as God intends for us but must also steer the church toward God’s power to get there.

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Unlock the Door to Unity with God’s Love

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To unlock the door to unity we need heed the Apostle Paul’s words in Philippians 2:1-2.
Keys to Church Unity - God's Love

Therefore if there is any encouragement in Christ, if there is any consolation of love, if there is any fellowship of the Spirit, if any affection and compassion, make my joy complete by being of the same mind, maintaining the same love, united in spirit, intent on one purpose. (Phil. 2:1-2, NASB)

We already looked at the first key, based on the “if” phrases, that of functioning from our position in Christ. Here we take the challenge to embrace the “consolation of love” (Phil. 2:1).

To Experience Unity We Must Learn to Truly Love One Another

If we are going to remain united through the failings of one another and strong differences of opinions, we need unconditional love. That’s a love that perseveres, that will not fail. It’s a love that responds with patience and kindness, not anger. That kind of love isn’t self-seeking but rather seeks to honor others. It let’s go of pride and forgives.

This unconditional love, described in 1 Corinthians 13, comes from God. Human love, that which we muster up within ourselves, is insufficient for us to remain united. Only God’s love will enable us to break through the walls and address the feelings of one another without attacking the person. If we’re going to love each other this way, we need to “know and rely on the love God has for us” (1 Jn. 4:16). We can only love because He first loved us (1 Jn. 4:19).

Loving One Another Unconditionally Leads to Comfort

Paul referred to experiencing unity “if there is any consolation of love” (Phil. 2:1). Another word for consolation, comfort, may help us understand this result of loving one another. Love let’s us know that it will be alright, that we’ll still be loved and accepted. We’ll still belong. We’ll be forgiven. That’s comforting.

Having such assurance tends to motivate. It’s worth the risk because it takes the fear out of being “united in spirit, intent on one purpose” (Phil. 2:2). — “There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to do with punishment. The one who fears is not made perfect in love.” (1 Jn. 4:18)

Make your purpose as a Church to “love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind” and to “love your neighbor as yourself” (Matt. 22:37-40). Then you will unlock the door to unity.

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Unlock the Door to Unity from Your Position “in Christ”

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Divisiveness describes our world today, which sadly also creeps into our churches. We can’t function like the world, from a political stance of pride and prejudice, and expect to experience the unity described in Scripture. We must function from our position “in Christ.” Therein we find encouragement and the building up of one another, rather than reacting toward one another with anger, deceitfulness, and manipulation.

Learn from Philippians 2:1-2

The Apostle Paul gave the Philippian church four conditions upon which unity would be based. Notice how the word “if” occurs four times.
Keys to Church Unity Includes Functioning from our position in Christ

Therefore if there is any encouragement in Christ, if there is any consolation of love, if there is any fellowship of the Spirit, if any affection and compassion, make my joy complete by being of the same mind, maintaining the same love, united in spirit, intent on one purpose. (Phil. 2:1-2, NASB)

This post will zero in on the first “if” with subsequent posts looking at the other keys to unity.

To Experience Unity We Must Function from our Position “in Christ”

The first “if” points to our position “in Christ” — “if there is any encouragement “in Christ” (Phil. 2:1). According to Ephesians 2:6, God has “seated us with Him in the heavenly places in Christ Jesus.” When we look at life from that position, we see things differently than when we are right in the fray of it all. We see the big picture, not merely the piece that affects me.

So much of the divisiveness comes from wanting our own individual ways rather than what’s for the good of the whole and most importantly for what honors and glorifies God. If we step out of ourselves and look at life through the eyes of Jesus, our hearts begin to change. We’re willing to sacrifice our own agendas. — “In your relationships with one another, have the same mindset as Christ Jesus: Who, being in very nature God, did not consider equality with God something to be used to his own advantage; rather, he made himself nothing by taking the very nature of a servant, being made in human likeness. … he humbled himself by becoming obedient to death …” (Phil. 2:5-8)

Functioning from Our Position in Christ Leads to Encouragement

Face it: The Church is filled with human beings. We won’t always see eye to eye. Leaders will sometimes fail. People will disappoint. We can still be encouraged despite the blemishes when we look at the Church as it is “in Christ”. Then we will no longer focus on all its flaws. We will see the Church as God sees her “in Christ” — dearly loved, His precious pride. When we see the Church from His vantage point, then we can come alongside (paraklesis) of each other in Him. We will speak the truth in love, not anger and disgust, spurring one another on rather than tearing each other down.

Reality tells us we won’t always agree but “in Christ” we can still come together. We will seek to get on page with Him, not pull others to our side. Then, even if things don’t go our way, we can rejoice together and move forward.

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Rejoicing Over Your Church Budget?

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Rejoicing in the Lord Always Include Working on the Church Budget?

“Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice!” (Phil. 4:4) – Does “always” even apply to working on the church budget? Perhaps when thinking about that task you would rather use words like dreadful, drudgery, boring, or maybe even excruciating, not something in which you find yourself rejoicing.

The phrase “in the Lord” provides the secret to rejoicing always. When seen as a process with God at the center, budgeting can turn into more of a reflection of His work in our midst. That can be exciting! Our God is “able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to his power that is at work within us” (Eph. 3:20). With God at the center, we exclaim “to him be glory in the church and in Christ Jesus throughout all generations, for ever and ever! Amen.” (Eph. 3:21) Now we find ourselves rejoicing in the Lord.

Perspectives Needed to Keep God at the Center of Your Church Budget

Use the following acrostic to remind yourself of the perspective needed to keep God at the center of your church budget.

  • Based on God as the Provider
  • Under God’s Supervision
  • Developed in Light of the Future
  • Guided by Reality yet Full of Faith
  • Enveloped in Prayer
  • Treated as a Group Endeavor

B – Based on God as the Provider

God owns it all. Anything we have is from Him. — “For in him all things were created: things in heaven and on earth, visible and invisible, whether thrones or powers or rulers or authorities; all things have been created through him and for him.” (Col. 1:16) “Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of the heavenly lights, who does not change like shifting shadows.” (James 1:17) — He owes us nothing, yet He chooses to provide for us. Whether we have much or little, shouldn’t that lead to praise and rejoicing?

U – Under God’s Supervision

Since God provides, He should guide. Along with His ownership of everything, it only makes sense that we come under His supervision in stewarding His provision. His ways are so much higher than ours (Isa. 55:9). We can count on His solutions to be the best. He not only guides us but also equips and empowers us to follow His ways. Apart from the Lord, we can do nothing of eternal value (Jn. 15:5). How exciting to follow the Lord and see what He has in store! Life under His supervision is an adventure.

D – Developed in Light of the Future

If budgeting primarily deals with paying current bills and expenses, people have nothing to look forward to. The budget basically says the church is going nowhere. That’s not very encouraging. Rather, it can lead to discouragement. With the psalmist, lets exclaim, “I would have despaired unless I had believed that I would see the goodness of the Lord In the land of the living” (Ps. 27:13, NASB). Give people a reason to hope. Use the budget to provide a vision of where God wants to take the church and people will have a reason to give toward it, as well as cause to rejoice.

G – Guided by Reality yet Full of Faith

The vision needs to be realistic. Jesus told His disciples to be wise (Matt. 10:16). Yet, we’re also exhorted to trust in the Lord with all our heart and not lean on our own understanding (Prov. 3:5-6). Like the Apostle Paul, let’s learn “to be content whatever the circumstances … whether living in plenty or in want” as we trust in Him to give us the strength to do what He wants us to do with what we have (Phil. 4:11-13). Before complaining about the little resources we have, remember how Jesus fed the multitudes with just a few loaves and fish. How exciting to see what God will do with the little resources we have, as we trust Him to do immeasurably more than we might think possible (Eph. 3:20).

E – Enveloped in Prayer

Finding that balance between reality and faith can be difficult. We don’t want to overshoot and disappoint. Yet, we don’t want a man-made budget that fails to acknowledge how anything is possible with God. Thankfully, God promises us the wisdom we need (James 1:5). As we turn our anxiety about the church budget over to God in prayer, we get to experience His peace “which transcends all understanding” (Phil. 4:6-7). We can pray “with thanksgiving” (Phil. 4:6) when we bring the budget under His supervision. Trusting that He will meet all of our needs, we gratefully exclaim “To our God and Father be glory for ever and ever. Amen.” (Phil. 4:19-20)

T – Treated as a Group Endeavor

In-fighting and resistance over the church budget certainly isn’t something in which we find joy. The reason churches face these troubles very well could be that one person or a small group of people make decisions without input from others. At minimum, enlist prayer support. Help people understand the need to make budgeting about God rather than our own plans. Consult people in the trenches to ascertain needs and where they believe God may want to take their area of ministry. People won’t tend to get excited about something merely imposed upon them. Remember, the Body “grows and builds itself up in love, as each part does its work” (Eph. 4:16). Then we all have reason to rejoice.

For more on developing a church budget with God at the center, check out the Train Church Leaders Practicum which looks at in light of God’s purposes and design for the church and more.

With a Godward perspective, we’re ready to set some financial goals.

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Different Functions So All Spiritual Gifts Needed

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If God designed the Church so it “grows and builds itself up in love, as each part does its work” (Eph. 4:16), then we must assume that no matter what spiritual gift(s) you have, you are both needed and important.

Different Functions in the Body of Christ Based on Gifting

Ministry Functions by Spiritual Gifting
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What do the circles in this image have in common?

They’re all spiritual gifts, but only 9 of the potential 25 spiritual gifts listed in the Bible.

Within these nine gifts, some have more in common than others.

Speaking GiftsSome of the spiritual gifts function more as speaking gifts.

teaching
prophecy
exhortation

Leading GiftsSome of the spiritual gifts function more as leading gifts.

leadership
administration
pastor

Serving GiftsSome of the spiritual gifts function more as serving gifts.

service
helps
hospitality

All Spiritual Gifts Needed for the Body to Properly Function

Even those gifts that have more in common than others, still have distinctions. Use the speaking types of gifts as an example. Those with the gift of teaching will tend to be more systematic in their approach. People with the gift of prophecy will tend to be more assertive in proclaiming “Thus saith the Lord”. Those with the gift of exhortation will tend to be more practical and application oriented. The Body therefore needs all these gifts to function in a balanced and healthy way.

The above image purposely mixed the gifts up rather than list each of the same color in a row. When it comes to ministering with our spiritual gifts, no one is better than the other but rather just has a different function. We all work side by side. Everyone is needed and everyone is important.

Help people discover, develop, and use the gifts God has given them to do their part. Click on this link to get help with that: Spiritual Gifts Resources

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Each Part Needed and Important

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God cued us in on a key element of church growth when He said the Body “grows and builds itself up in love, as each part does its work” (Eph. 4:16). First note that church growth isn’t merely about numbers. Real growth comes when we love God with all of who we are which spills over into loving one another (Matt.22:37-40). That often leads to numerical growth as love attracts people, letting them know we’re His disciples (Jn. 13:34-35). How, then, do we grow and build ourselves up in love? — “as each part does its work” using their spiritual gifts.

Each Part is Needed So Don’t Minimize

Perhaps you’ve heard someone say I’m just a …

lay person.
church secretary.
teacher’s helper.
nursery worker.

Maybe you’ve said or thought the same thing. If so, click on the above link applicable to you. Note how vital you are to the Body of Christ. Each, and every, part is needed, even those that “seem to be weaker are indispensable” (1 Cor. 12:22). Just because your part may “seem to be” weaker or lesser than another part, doesn’t mean it isn’t needed. That’s our opinion, not God’s. Take time to read 1 Corinthians 12 about God’s design for the Body and each person’s part in it.

If you don’t view your gift as needed, read: Different Functions So All Spiritual Gifts Needed

Each Part is Important So Don’t Compare

Saying “I’m just a …” suggests some sort of comparison. Lay people may compare themselves to professionals. Church secretaries may compare themselves to leaders. Helpers may compare themselves to teachers. Nursery workers may compare themselves to those serving older ages. The conclusion? “I’m just a ….”, meaning “I’m not as important” as someone else.

We need to remember some key factors:

  1. “There is neither Jew nor Gentile, neither slave nor free, nor is there male and female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus.” (Gal. 3:28) – To be “one in Christ Jesus” puts us on an equal plane. Just because we fulfill different roles within the Body doesn’t mean there’s a hierarchy in terms of importance.
  1. “We have different gifts, according to the grace given to each of us.” (Rom. 12:6) – God gives spiritual gifts on the basis of grace, not merit. That means no one is better than another.
  1. “God has placed the parts in the body, every one of them, just as he wanted them to be.” (1 Cor. 12:18) – To devalue ourselves is to think God made a mistake with us or to criticize Him for His plan and purposes for our lives.

If you tend to compare yourself to others, read: Caught Up in the Comparison Game?

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