Previously we determined that in order for character education to be good, it must be based on an unchanging standard if we are going to maintain integrity and always have a point of reference. God character must be defined by God’s character, not self-determined. We must also ask how we acquire these character traits. The means makes a difference.
The Means of Acquiring Godly Character Traits
To determine how we acquire these character traits, turn to 2 Peter 1:3-8.
1) We are inadequate to live up to the standard of who God is. We are to be holy as He is holy. We are to love as He loves. Yet, we will never develop that extent of quality of character within ourselves.
“His divine power has given us everything we need for life and godliness” (2 Pet. 1:3)
Character education must emphasize the role and work of the Spirit in making it happen. God has given believers the Holy Spirit to live within them so they have the power to become who He has called them to be in Christ Jesus.
— If the plan for character education is based on self-effort, reconsider. Only the Holy Spirit can develop true Christlikeness in us.
2) It all begins with knowing God. Don’t expect people without a relationship with God through Christ, resulting in the indwelling of the Spirit, to have a moral compass.
“through our knowledge of him who called us by his own glory and goodness” (2 Pet. 1:3)
Life in Christ is based on grace and relationship, not performance. Out of that, all else flows.
— If a plan for character education doesn’t emphasize getting to know God, it is merely a humanistic, performance-based effort.
3) It continues with knowing God. Don’t expect believers who remain spiritual babes to have Christ-like character.
“make every effort to add to your faith goodness; and to goodness, knowledge; … self-control … perseverance … godliness … brotherly kindness … love” (2 Pet. 1:5-7)
Acquiring Godly Traits is a Growth Process
Remember, though we are to “make every effort to add” these traits it is HIS divine power that makes it happen (2 Pet. 1:3). — “But grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ.” (2 Pet. 3:18)
Just prior to writing those words, Peter warned, “be on your guard so that you may not be carried away by the error of lawless men and fall from your secure position.” Growing in our relationship with Him is our safeguard for maintaining Christ-like character and not being drawn into the ways of the world.
— If a plan for character education is a short-term effort, it will likely produce short term results. Becoming Christ-like is a life-time process of becoming more and more like Him as we grab hold of His grace and power.
Resources:
The Teacher’s Role in Discipling Students Toward Christ-like Character & Conduct
Tips for Teaching About Character Traits
Steering the Church Toward Christ-like Character Leadership Guide