How Opinionated We Can Be!

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If you pay any attention to the political landscape, you know how opinionated people can be. Great divides exist even among Christians over politics, doctrine, moral issues, and church practices. A plethora of denominations and church splits testify of how opinionated we can be.

A Christ-like Response to Differences of Opinion

Different opinions are not the problem. We can become better, as His Church, if we learn how to respond with Christlikeness as described in Philippians 2.

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Therefore if you have any encouragement from being united with Christ, if any comfort from his love, if any common sharing in the Spirit, if any tenderness and compassion, then make my joy complete by being like-minded, having the same love, being one in spirit and of one mind. Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others. (Phil. 2:1-4)

1) We must all be willing to learn from one another.

Notice this phrase in Philippians 2: “common sharing in the Spirit”

While at the end of the day we are all personally accountable to God for where we stand on issues and must assume responsibility for our own actions and reactions, we can learn from and grow because of one another.

2) We must not let our personal preferences, politics, and practices divide.

Notice these phrases in Philippians 2: “united with Christ” and “in the Spirit”

There’s a bigger picture — the cause of Christ. As individuals and as a Church, let’s keep the focus on HIM and who we are in Him, not on ourselves.

3) We must be considerate of one another and continue to love one another even when we disagree, responding with Christ-likeness.

Notice this part in Philippians 2: “Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others.”

Let’s remember the exhortation of Philippians 2:2-7 where the Apostle Paul wrote of his joy being complete if they would be “like-minded, having the same love, being one in spirit and purpose.” If it would cause that kind of reaction in Paul, imagine how the Lord must feel when believers come together in unity despite our diversity!

4) We must keep an attitude of love and humility, that of servanthood seen in Christ, no matter how right we may feel we are.

Notice Philippians 2:5-7: “In your relationships with one another, have the same mindset as Christ Jesus: Who, being in very nature God, did not consider equality with God something to be used to his own advantage; rather, he made himself nothing by taking the very nature of a servant, being made in human likeness.”

Let’s express and even celebrate our individual differences and learn from one another, doing “nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit, but in humility consider others better than yourselves” (Phil. 2:3).

When we come together this way, despite our differences, the world around us sees the life of Christ flowing through us, not a people all fragmented and dysfunctional. That is something they would want to be a part of, not something to mock and run from!

As a church, we are more than a mere organization. We are a living organism, the Body of Christ. Similar to the human body, the Church has many different parts with varying ways of doing things. Yet, those parts come together to form a coordinated whole under the leadership of the Head. Imagine the difference we, the Church, could make in this world if we would function the way God designed us to be.

May God help each of us live out the oneness we have in Him.

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God’s Search of Who We Are

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Previously we noted that who we are can affect the way we serve. Consequently, it’s important that in nurturing our inner being that we look to God to change us from the inside out. God not only is our standard but He also is our means of changing. His glory should be our intent. Notice how the psalmist’s prayer in Psalm 139:23-24 gets beyond merely asking God to unveil the “true me” to submitting to His leading to bring about the necessary changes in our lives.

Search me, O God - Psalm 139

Ask God to Search Your Heart

Search me, O God, and know my heart; test me and know my anxious thoughts. See if there is any offensive way in me, and lead me in the way everlasting. (Ps. 139:23-24)

When the Psalmist asked God to search his heart, he didn’t requesting a casual look but rather a deep, penetrating investigation. The Gesenius’ Hebrew-Chaldee Lexicon suggests that the “primary idea is perhaps that of searching in the earth by digging” which means uncovering that which is below the surface.

  • What will God see if He searches your heart? Are there things you have been trying to hide that need to be rooted out and dealt with?

Ask God to Test Your Thoughts

When the psalmist asked God to test His thoughts, he wasn’t requesting God to merely mark off a check list of what was or wasn’t there. Rather, as Strong’s Concordance suggests, the idea is testing our thoughts like metals which means putting them through fire, of sorts, to identify any that are not strong enough to endure.

  • What will God find if He tests your thoughts? Are there strongholds of doubts, insecurities, stress, and anxieties that need to be purged from your mind?

Result of God’s Searching and Testing

Through the searching and testing process, God becomes thoroughly acquainted with who we are on the inside — “search … and know my heart” “test … and know my anxious thoughts”. The prayer of the psalmist wasn’t, however, that God simply knew his inner being but that He acted based on what He saw. The psalmist wanted God to take him from where he was to where he should be, to root out offensive ways in him and then transform him from the inside out.

  • Are you willing to submit to God in these ways?
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Who We Are Affects How We Serve

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Let’s be honest with ourselves. What’s truly on the inside does have ways of showing itself outwardly, even if subtly. We need to ask ourselves what really is inside of us. Who we are from the inside out affects how we serve either propelling us forward, positively affecting our ministry, or holding us back, negatively impacting what we do.

A Look at Who We Are

attitudes:

We can say we love people but in reality hold grudges, biases, or bitterness. As a result, we don’t truly accept or trust people which affects our fellowship with them and ability to serve together as a team.

beliefs:

We can say we believe certain doctrines but not really hold onto those beliefs in our heart. As a result, we may put emphasis on certain truths over others and skew God’s character and ways.

character:

We can say we are Christians but not actually walk in the Spirit and consequently not be very Christ-like. As a result, we may lack the integrity and humility essential to God-honoring ministry.

motivations:

We can say we want to serve but don’t want to be inconvenienced or taken out of our comfort zone. As a result, we make one excuse after another on why we can’t get involved or perhaps quit shortly after beginning.

thoughts:

We can say we are trusting God but be filled with all sorts or doubts and insecurities. As a result, we take a cautious approach in ministry, not living up to the full potential of what God wants to do in and through us.

Ask God for Help to Be Who We Should Be

When was the last you prayed similar to Psalm 139:23-24?

Search me, O God - Psalm 139

The next post will take a closer look at the above prayer.

Remember this: No matter how big the gap may be between who we truly are and who we should be, change is possible as we rely on God’s power. We are not hopeless. We are not helpless in Him. We have a God who is able to transform us from the inside out.

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How to Have a Good Heart

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Above All Guard Your Heart
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Proverbs is a very practical book, not only letting us know the type of heart we should have and why it is important but also what produces the kind of heart you have.

Look at the following verses and you will be able to note how God uses instruction and discipline in the shaping of our hearts.

  • turning your ear to wisdom and applying your heart to understanding— (Prov. 2:2)
  • For the LORD gives wisdom; from his mouth come knowledge and understanding. … Then you will understand what is right and just and fair—every good path. For wisdom will enter your heart, and knowledge will be pleasant to your soul. (Prov. 2:6-10)
  • My son, do not forget my teaching, but keep my commands in your heart, (Prov. 3:1)
  • Let love and faithfulness never leave you; bind them around your neck, write them on the tablet of your heart. (Prov. 3:3)
  • Then he taught me, and he said to me, “Take hold of my words with all your heart; keep my commands, and you will live. (Prov. 4:4)
  • My son, pay attention to what I say; turn your ear to my words. Do not let them out of your sight, keep them within your heart; (Prov. 4:20-21)
  • You will say, “How I hated discipline! How my heart spurned correction! (Prov. 5:12)
  • My son, keep your father’s command and do not forsake your mother’s teaching. Bind them always on your heart; fasten them around your neck. (Prov. 6:20-21)
  • Keep my commands and you will live; guard my teachings as the apple of your eye. Bind them on your fingers; write them on the tablet of your heart. (Prov. 7:2-3)
  • Anxiety weighs down the heart, but a kind word cheers it up. (Prov. 12:25)
  • Wisdom reposes in the heart of the discerning and even among fools she lets herself be known. (Prov. 14:33)
  • The heart of the righteous weighs its answers, but the mouth of the wicked gushes evil. (Prov. 15:28)
  • Before a downfall the heart is haughty, but humility comes before honor. (Prov. 18:12)
  • The heart of the discerning acquires knowledge, for the ears of the wise seek it out. (Prov. 18:15)
  • Folly is bound up in the heart of a child, but the rod of discipline will drive it far away. (Prov. 22:15)
  • Pay attention and turn your ear to the sayings of the wise; apply your heart to what I teach, for it is pleasing when you keep them in your heart and have all of them ready on your lips. So that your trust may be in the LORD, I teach you today, even you. (Prov. 22:17-19)
  • Apply your heart to instruction and your ears to words of knowledge. (Prov. 23:12)
  • Do not let your heart envy sinners, but always be zealous for the fear of the LORD. (Prov. 23:17)
  • Listen, my son, and be wise, and set your heart on the right path: (Prov. 23:19)
  • applied my heart to what I observed (Prov. 24:32)

You can also see that some of the instruction and discipline needed to have a good heart comes through God’s Word but some is also parental nurturing. And, we must have an active role in the process, being diligent and purposeful in pursuing this kind of heart with a humble, teachable attitude.

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10 Commandments Teach How to Love People

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10 Commandments Teach Us to Love God
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For society to rid itself of the Ten Commandments isn’t merely a way of getting rid of God but it is a way of turning our world into a place that is more and more filled with lovers of self.

Why? Because the Ten Commandments teach us how to love not only God but also people.

In the previous post we already looked at the first four commandments as those which teach us how to love God. Now we turn our attention to the remaining commands to learn how to love people.

Which of the Ten Commandments listed in Exodus 20 teach us how to love people?

Command #5: Honor your father and your mother … (Ex. 20:12)

Loving people begins with our earliest of relationships, that of a parent and child, whether biological or adoptive. If we don’t learn to honor those who love us and care for our well-being, even when we disagree with them, certainly such disrespect will transfer over into other relationships. Love does not dishonor others (1 Cor. 13:5).

Command #6: You shall not murder. (Ex. 20:13)

To love people is to value life. Each person’s life matters. It is not for us to judge who lives and dies. To love people is to forgive them and not take vengeance into our own hands. Love “keeps no record of wrongs” (1 Cor. 13:5). Rather, we entrust ourselves, and them, to God for Him to do what is right and best for all.

Command #7: You shall not commit adultery. (Ex. 20:14)

Committing adultery speaks to being unfaithful in the most committed relationship God ordained between two people. True love is not self-seeking (1 Cor. 13:5) so even when the relationship is strained, we remain true to that commitment. Love “always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres” (1 Cor. 13:7).

Command #8: You shall not steal. (Ex. 20:15)

To steal is to to “wrongly take and use” something that does not belong to you (Merriam-Webster). Consequently, stealing wrongs another person because we are taking what belongs to them. True love does the opposite. It protects (1 Cor. 13:7). At first glance we might say this command refers to having respect for other people’s property. Keep in mind, that we can steal other things like their time by wasting it, like their dignity by belittling them, like the honor that is due them by claiming credit for their idea or accomplishment, etc. Parents can even steal their child’s emotional well-being by not caring for them as they should.

Command #9: You shall not give false testimony against your neighbor. (Ex. 20:16)

“Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.” (1 Cor. 13:6) Consequently, if we love someone, we turn away from slandering them or making them look bad before others. We don’t ruin someone’s reputation just to make ourselves look good or to get what we want.

Command #10: You shall not covet your neighbor’s house. You shall not covet your neighbor’s wife, … or anything that belongs to your neighbor. (Ex. 20:17)

Coveting leads to nothing but relational problems, all of which demonstrate a lack of love. — “You desire but do not have, so you kill. You covet but you cannot get what you want, so you quarrel and fight.” (James 4:2) We need to learn to genuinely be glad for what others have, not jealous of their relationships or property for “love does not envy” (1 Cor. 13:4).

The Ten Commandments began by teaching us how to love God. When we learn to love Him, fulfilling these commands that teach us how to love people tends to fall into place because love for people flows out of our love for God.

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10 Commandments Teach How to Love God

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If we get rid of the 10 Commandments from our society, we don’t merely lose a moral code, we forget how to show love to God and others for these commands teach us HOW TO LOVE both God and people. Remember that Jesus identified the Greatest Commandments as loving God and loving our neighbor as we love ourselves. That means any other commandment must be a sub-point of these two commands for “All the Law and the Prophets hang on these two commandments” (Matt 22:35-40).

10 Commandments Teach Us to Love God
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In this post we will look at the commandments that teach us how to love God. The next post will consider the commandments that teach us how to love people so be sure to subscribe to receive e-mail notice of new posts if not already subscribed.

Which of the Ten Commandments listed in Exodus 20 teach us how to love God?

The first four commandments relate to our relationship with God. He is first, and then people.

Command #1: You shall have no other gods before me. (Ex. 20:3)

Jesus said we are to love God with ALL of who we are which means we put Him first in terms of priority, importance, and devotion. We give Him the reigns of our lives, not allowing ourselves to come under the control of others things or people. He is our first love who has ALL of our heart, soul, mind, and strength.

Command #2: You shall not make for yourself an image in the form of anything in heaven above or on the earth beneath or in the waters below. You shall not bow down to them or worship them … (Ex. 20:4-6)

When we truly love someone, we accept them for who they are. Likewise, love for God keeps us from trying to redefine Him or confining or limiting Him to our understanding. He is the one of whom there is none greater. He is so great that we can’t possibly fashion anything physically or mentally that comes close to describing who He is, and we dishonor Him if we try.

Command #3: You shall not misuse the name of the LORD your God … (Ex. 20:7)

Who dishonors or disrespects those they love? If anything, we dignify them before others. If we love God, we will honor Him in the way we both speak and live so He is glorified. We let our light shine for Him (Matt. 5:16).

Command #4: Remember the Sabbath day by keeping it holy … (Ex. 20:8-11)

When we love someone, we want to spend time with them. When we love God, we likewise intentionally and purposefully set aside time to rest in Him. We guard against getting so busy that He is scheduled out of our lives.

Keeping these first four commandments shows that you do indeed love God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind. It’s not about meriting God’s love through our obedience but rather showing Him love.

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