What Does the Bible Say About Self-Striving?

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Self-striving is about our human effort to make something happen or to become who we should be. Sometimes it stems from comparing ourselves to others and finding ourselves to be inferior. Our insecurities may drive us to self-striving to try to measure up rather than find our significance in the Lord. Whatever the cause, we’re basically over-estimating our own abilities to change or make things happen and under-estimating God’s ability. And so, self-striving equals self-reliance.

The Bible Warns Against Self-Striving

God makes it clear that no amount of striving will save us.

For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith – and this is not from yourselves, it is the gift of God – not by works, so that no one can boast. (Eph. 2:8-9)

He also exhorts, “So then, just as you received Christ Jesus as Lord, continue to live your lives in him, rooted and built up in him, strengthened in the faith as you were taught, and overflowing with thankfulness” (Col. 2:6-7). We continue to live by grace, which in essence, is God doing for us what we can’t do for ourselves. — “being confident of this, that he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus.” (Phil. 1:6)

Scripture also describes self-striving in our day-to-day physical lives as meaningless. It just leads to anxiety and stress.

Unless the Lord builds the house, the builders labor in vain. In vain you rise early and stay up late, toiling for food to eat – for he grants sleep to those he loves. (Ps. 127:1-2)

What do people get for all the toil and anxious striving with which they labor under the sun? All their days their work is grief and pain; even at night their minds do not rest. This too is meaningless.(Eccl. 2:22-23)

Scripture Exhorts Us to Cease Striving

Cease from Self-StrivingGod said, “Cease striving and know that I am God” (Ps. 46:10, NASB).

As we “behold the works of the Lord” and acknowledge that “the Lord Almighty is with us” (Ps. 46:7-8), we realize that we have an “ever-present help” (Ps. 46:1). We don’t have to rely on ourselves when the One of whom there is none greater is with us. No one can truly fathom His greatness and understanding (Ps. 145:3; Isa. 40:28). That’s what makes Him God. It only makes sense to heed the instruction in Proverbs 3:5-6 to “trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him”.

The Hebrew word for “cease striving”, according to Strong’s concordance, suggests that we sink down or relax. When we sink down into God’s sovereignty as the Lord Almighty, we can relax knowing He’s in control and that He is fully capable to take care of all that pertains to us. When we rely on the Almighty God rather than our own strength, we find peace (Phil. 4:6-7) and contentment (Phil. 4:11-13)

While we do find places in Scripture that seem to suggest we strive for certain things, it’s still not self-striving but rather God working in and through us. We must interpret Scripture with Scripture.

Therefore, my dear friends, as you have always obeyed – not only in my presence, but now much more in my absence – continue to work out your salvation with fear and trembling, for it is God who works in you to will and to act in order to fulfill his good purpose. (Phil. 2:12-13)

To this end I strenuously contend with all the energy Christ so powerfully works in me. (Col. 1:29)

Rather Than Strive, Do This

Do you want to change and get better? Do you want to do what really matters? — Cease striving. Know that He is God.

Here’s the starting point: Trust God instead of worrying. “Seek first his kingdom and his righteousness” (Matt. 6:25-34)  As you do, pull on His power. It isn’t necessary to strive when the Almighty God is with us. Pull on His power by …

  • walking in the Spirit (Gal. 5:16-26),
  • relying on His grace (Titus 2:11-12),
  • abiding in Christ (Jn. 15:4-5),
  • and finding your strength in the Lord (Phil. 4:13; Isa. 40:31).

For more on various means through which He empowers us, go to: The Source of the Church’s Power

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How to Be More Discerning

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Discernment requires that we observe and understand a situation. It not only helps us distinguish right from wrong, but also choose between good, better, and best. We’re able to make a judgment about what will work and what won’t. In essence, to discern we make an assessment of the situation that should ultimately lead to making wise choices.

Wisdom's Foundation Has Consequences
As humans, in and of ourselves, we tend to make poor, and even destructive, choices, so how do we become more discerning?

There is a way that appears to be right, but in the end it leads to death. (Prov. 14:12)

What We Need to Do to Be More Discerning So We Make Wise Choices

Discernment takes more than following a few steps. It’s something developed within us as we use the right means to get there. Click on the links below to learn more about each of these means to becoming more discerning.

He provides the standard against which we discern what’s right and wrong.

The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom … (Ps. 111:10)

If we don’t change on the inside first, our attempts to be more discerning will be short-lived.

… be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will. (Rom. 12:2)

This is what God uses to teach us about Himself so we know the right and best way to go.

… by constant use have trained themselves to distinguish good from evil. (Heb. 5:14)

Since loving God and others are the greatest commandments, we need to filter what we do through this lens.

… that your love may abound more and more in knowledge and depth of insight, so that you may be able to discern what is best and may be pure and blameless … (Phil. 1:9-11)

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Check Your Methods

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Based on 1 Thessalonians 2:3-6a, we can conclude that in coming alongside of people in ministry, we need to keep our message true to God’s Word and our motives pure. When that happens, our methodology will be filled with integrity. So, check your methods. If there’s any form of manipulation, something’s askew.

Check Your Methods When Doing a Personal Ministry Check-upFor the appeal we make does not spring from error or impure motives, nor are we trying to trick you. On the contrary, we speak as men approved by God to be entrusted with the gospel. We are not trying to please men but God, who tests our hearts. You know we never used flattery, nor did we put on a mask to cover up greed – God is our witness. We were not looking for praise from men, not from you or anyone else. (1 Thess. 2:3-6a)

Check Your Methods to Make Sure They’re Upright

Paul said he never used trickery, flattery, or cover-ups. All of that would have been manipulating people into doing what he wanted them to do. How he treated people stemmed from an upright heart, one that was genuine and maintained the right motives. He would set aside his own comfort, convenience, and rights to win people to the Lord (1 Cor. 9:19-23), but not in deceptive, self-serving ways. To help identify how our methods may not always be fully upright, read:

Think about it: The message we proclaim comes from the Almighty God, the One of whom there’s none greater. Why would we think God needs our help to manipulate people into believing and changing? Isn’t God’s Word powerful enough to thoroughly equip people (2 Tim. 3:16-17)? Isn’t it “alive and active” (Heb. 4:12), sufficient to produce faith and lead to salvation (Rom. 1:16; 10:17; 1 Pet. 1:23-25)? Remember, God’s Word is “sharper than any double-edged sword, it penetrates even to dividing soul and spirit, joints and marrow; it judges the thoughts and attitudes of the heart” (Heb. 4:12).

How to Safeguard Your Methodology

Paul went to great pains to be upright because He sought approval from God, not people. What God thought mattered more than any perceived benefit from others. He knew that doing what was right in the eyes of the Lord also benefited others (2 Cor. 8:21). For that reason he told Timothy, “Watch your life and doctrine closely. Persevere in them, because if you do, you will save both yourself and your hearers.” (1 Tim. 4:16) That would take diligence and giving himself wholly to it (1 Tim. 4:15).

Paul likened the discipline needed to that of the strict training needed to win in a sports competition. He said, “Therefore I do not run like someone running aimlessly; I do not fight like a boxer beating the air. No, I strike a blow to my body and make it my slave so that after I have preached to others, I myself will not be disqualified for the prize.” (1 Cor. 9:24-27) — How far are you willing to go to make sure your ministry methods remain upright, approved by God?

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Check Your Motives

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In doing a personal ministry check-up, it isn’t enough to make sure we have the right message. We also need to check our motives, to make sure we’re coming alongside of people for the right reasons. We can learn from the Apostle Paul’s example.

Check Your Motives When Doing a Personal Ministry Check-upFor the appeal we make does not spring from error or impure motives, nor are we trying to trick you. On the contrary, we speak as men approved by God to be entrusted with the gospel. We are not trying to please men but God, who tests our hearts. You know we never used flattery, nor did we put on a mask to cover up greed – God is our witness. We were not looking for praise from men, not from you or anyone else. (1 Thess. 2:3-6a)

Check Your Motivation to Make Sure It’s Pure

We have pure motives in ministry when we do what we do because we love the Lord with ALL of our heart, soul, mind, and strength which spills over into loving people (Lk. 10:27). Impure motives come when we put anything or anyone, including ourselves, above the Lord. When, however, we put our “all” into loving God, there’s no room for selfish ambition. He’s the One who gets the glory, not us (Ps. 115:1). It’s His agenda we seek, not our own. It’s His approval that matters, not people’s (Gal. 1:10).

Think about it: We serve the Almighty God, the One of whom there is none greater. Shouldn’t everything be centered around Him. Who are we to claim that which belongs to Him? Who are we that we would seek to draw attention to ourselves rather than the One who can truly make a difference in people’s lives? — “So neither the one who plants nor the one who waters is anything, but only God, who makes things grow.” (1 Cor. 3:7)

How to Safeguard Your Motives

Paul kept his motives pure by looking at ministry as a heart issue, not merely tasks to be accomplished. He knew God “tests our hearts” (1 Thess. 2:4b) for “the Lord does not look at the things people look at. People look at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart.” (1 Sam. 16:7).

So, “above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it” (Prov. 4:23). Remember, “the mouth speaks what the heart is full of” (Lk. 6:45). Take great care to sow good into your heart.

For more about the role of the heart in ministry, read the following:

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Check Your Message

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In 1 Thessalonians 2:3-6, Paul did a personal assessment of sorts in defense of the message he shared with this church. Therein we learn of the need to check our message as well.

Consider Your Message When Doing a Personal Ministry Check-upFor the appeal we make does not spring from error or impure motives, nor are we trying to trick you. On the contrary, we speak as men approved by God to be entrusted with the gospel. We are not trying to please men but God, who tests our hearts. You know we never used flattery, nor did we put on a mask to cover up greed – God is our witness. We were not looking for praise from men, not from you or anyone else.

Check Your Message to Make Sure It’s True

Notice how Paul said, “the appeal we make does not spring from error” (1 Thess. 2:3). We mustn’t wander from what’s true to make the message seem more appealing. People need to hear truth, not what makes them feel good. Jesus said, “If you hold to my teaching, you are really my disciples. Then you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.” (Jn. 8:31-32)

While we mustn’t stray from the truth, we must make sure we’re presenting it rightly. The Greek word for “appeal”, paraklesis, suggests that Paul came alongside of the Thessalonians with truth. He came alongside with encouragement, entreating them, rather than with an iron fist as an authoritarian. He didn’t, however, merely say what he thought they wanted to hear, but rather what God wanted them to hear. He didn’t stray from what was true but rather aligned with God’s message. In coming alongside of people in this way, he was speaking the truth in love (Eph. 4:15).

Paul’s words to Timothy further explain that we’re to communicate truth “with great patience and careful instruction. For the time will come when people will not put up with sound doctrine. Instead, to suit their own desires, they will gather around them a great number of teachers to say what their itching ears want to hear. They will turn their ears away from the truth and turn aside to myths. But you, keep your head in all situations …” (2 Tim. 4:2-5)

How to Safeguard the Message

Paul kept true because he looked at the message he had been given as an entrustment for which he’d be held accountable. He wrote, “we speak as men approved by God to be entrusted with the gospel” (1 Thess. 2:4a). No wonder Paul exhorted Timothy, “Do your best to present yourself to God as one approved, a workman who does not need to be ashamed and who correctly handles the word of truth” (2 Tim. 2:15). If we’re not investing sufficient prayer, time, and study into God’s Word, we may find ourselves failing to accurately communicate God’s truth.

Think about it: The message we proclaim comes from the Almighty God, the One of whom there is none greater. Shouldn’t we handle it carefully? Who are we to make adjustments to it? Who are we to pick and choose what’s true when He says “all Scripture is God-breathed and is useful” (2 Tim. 3:16-17)?

Read the following articles for more thoughts about accurately presenting the message. These articles target Bible teachers, but anyone communicating God’s Word, in any capacity, can benefit.

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Value of a Personal Ministry Check-Up

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When was the last time you did a personal ministry check-up? The Apostle Paul made this kind of assessment of his ministry in light of criticism levied at him. False accusations that could have stirred up doubts within the Thessalonian church required Paul to defend his ministry. In order to do that, he had to step back and look at himself, to do a check-up of sorts. We can learn much from his conclusions.

What to Consider When Doing a Personal Ministry Check-upFor the appeal we make does not spring from error or impure motives, nor are we trying to trick you. On the contrary, we speak as men approved by God to be entrusted with the gospel. We are not trying to please men but God, who tests our hearts. You know we never used flattery, nor did we put on a mask to cover up greed – God is our witness. We were not looking for praise from men, not from you or anyone else. (1 Thess. 2:3-6a)

Value of Personal Assessments

For Paul, doing a ministry check-up became essential for the purpose of defending his ministry to reassure others of the validity of his message. We might not be in the same position as Paul so we might not need to broadcast conclusions. We do however need to be ready should the need arise.

Like Paul, we need to know before God, with Him as “our witness”, that we’re doing ministry as He would have us do it. Whatever we do, we do it to the glory of God (1 Cor. 10:31). We ultimately stand accountable before God to be good stewards of that with which we’ve been entrusted. Two times in just a few verses, Paul stated the perspective that kept him from failing the check-up. He wasn’t trying to please people, to gain their praise, but rather cared most about what God thought, for he realized that God was the One who tested his heart. He knew he could fool other people, but not God.

What to Consider When Doing a Personal Ministry Check-Up

Look back at Paul’s words to the Thessalonians. There we find three different areas for us to assess.

  1. Our message – Make sure it’s true.
  2. Our motives – Make sure they’re pure.
  3. Our methods – Make sure they’re upright, filled with integrity.

Be sure to click on the above links for more on each area.

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