We tend to ask “what if” questions like “What if I had done xxx differently?” or “What if xxx hadn’t happened?”. Sometimes answering those kinds of questions can propel us forward but sometimes it can pull us down.
Constructive Versus Destructive Asking of “What If”
When we ask this question for evaluative purposes, so we can learn for the future, it can be a very constructive process. When, however, it merely leads to bemoaning what could have been, it has a destructive effect.
If we ask “what if” about choices and conduct over which we have the ability to change, it can be a positive learning experience. When we keep focusing on circumstances over which we have little or no control, it tends to produce needless anxiety and stress.
“What If” Questions for People in Ministry to Ask
“What if” you did things different in your walk with God and ministry? What kind of difference would it make? Here are some “what ifs” to think about that could potentially revolutionize your ministry:
- What if you spent more time daily communing with God in His Word and through prayer?
- What if you cared more about what God thinks than what people think?
- What if you spent more time listening to others than trying to promote your own agenda?
- What if you acted with a little more grace toward those who stand in opposition to you?
- What if you spent more time responding than reacting?
- What if you expressed your appreciation and gratitude for people more often?
- What if you tried to get people more involved in the process rather than doing it yourself?
- What if you stopped and prayed before every decision you had to make?
- What if you thought outside of the box more often rather than doing it simply because “we’ve always done it that way”?
- What if you put more emphasis on Jesus than on programs and your own image?
- What if you were as good of a role model for your own children as you act in front of others?
- What if you acted like you really believe what you teach or preach?
To answer these questions we need to honestly assess our current practices. Rather than sensing condemnation in our reflection, understand that God wants us to learn and grow, to press on to do better through the power God provides. None of us have arrived but we can all press on (Phil. 3:12). Remember these verses:
I can do everything through him who gives me strength. (Phil. 4:13)
His divine power has given us everything we need for a godly life through our knowledge of him who called us by his own glory and goodness. (2 Pet. 1:3)