Training Category: Outreach Ministry
We are to “always be prepared to give an answer to everyone who asks you to give the reason for the hope that you have” (1 Pet. 3:15) which certainly refers to “what” we say. The Greek word itself for “to give an answer”, apologia, means a verbal defense. However, we need to go on to the next word in the verse “but” — “But do this with gentleness and respect, keeping a clear conscience …”
Biblical Apologetics Isn’t Just What We Say But How We Say It
God’s Word exhorts us to not only defend our faith but to maintain integrity while doing so. 2 Timothy 2:24 parallels the stance Christians should take with others — “And the Lord’s servant must not quarrel; instead, he must be kind to everyone, able to teach, not resentful. Those who oppose him he must gently instruct …”
Biblical Apologetics involves some do’s and don’ts:
DO:
- Do be gentle in your approach no matter how they treat you.
- Do treat the person with respect regardless of their views.
- Do demonstrate kindness even if they aren’t.
DON’T:
- Don’t quarrel or let a debate escalate to the point of a power struggle.
- Don’t get resentful if people won’t budge or if they attack you rather than the issues.
We need to know when to bail out. 2 Timothy 2:23 says “Don’t have anything to do with foolish and stupid arguments because you know they produce quarrels.” If a person genuinely wants an answer, you should be able to get beyond the smoke screens and deal with the real issues in a civil manner.
Learn more about apologetics in the Outreach Ministry Manual which includes an outline of this classic passage, 1 Peter 3:15-18, on defending our faith.