But It Hurts!

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Have you ever noticed how we as Christians makes excuses for ourselves for having bad attitudes, negative thinking, and ungodly reactions?

I don’t feel good.
I’m under a lot of stress.
I’ve been hurt real bad.
I’m tired.

Yes. We feel pain and disappointment. We face struggles and obstacles in our way. We don’t always get treated the way we should. While we shouldn’t deny the reality of how we feel and what we have experienced, does that excuse us from demonstrating God’s love to those around us by lashing out at them or making their lives miserable? Does that excuse us from walking the walk?

No Loopholes in Scripture for When It Hurts

Read through Scripture and you’ll find verses like the following:

And the Lord’s servant must not quarrel; instead, he must be kind to everyone, able to teach, not resentful. (2 Tim. 2:24)

Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice! Let your gentleness be evident to all. (Phil. 4:4-5)

Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love. (Eph. 4:2)

Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rather rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. (1 Cor. 13:4-7)

Somehow we think we are the exception, that our situation is different. Scripture, however, makes no distinctions. We are to walk the walk even when it hurts because we have help for when it hurts. God knows what we’ll face in life and provides what we need to rise above.

  • God knows we’ll have situations in life causing us to hurt and grieve so He provides comfort.
  • God knows we’ll have stressful and anxiety-producing circumstances so He provides peace.
  • God knows we’ll have sorrow and sadness in life so He provides joy.
  • God knows we’ll have plenty of temptations so He provides grace to overcome.
  • God knows we’ll have troubles of various sorts so He provides hope of a better day.

A Biblical Example of Walking the Walk Even When It Hurts

King David of the Old Testament was no stranger to suffering. Read through the Psalms and you’ll notice his candor in talking about his feelings but then it’s like as though he would catch himself and say “Why so downcast, O my soul? Why so disturbed within me? Put your hope in God, for I will yet praise him, my Savior and my God” (Ps. 42:11). He had a keen awareness of what God offers to those who hurt.

Walk the Walk Even When It HurtsDavid penned the words,

“Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, for you are with me.” (Ps. 23:4)

The entire Psalm 23 forms the basis for the devotional Bible study guide titled, Walk the Walk Even When It Hurts. As you work through the devotions, you’ll encounter a realistic view of struggles and hardships, the valleys of life, yet encouragement that it is possible to rise above.

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The Need for Heart Preparation

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Value Heart Preparation Because God Looks at the Heart
In the Old Testament we read about the prophet Samuel’s quest to anoint a new king for Israel. Samuel leaned toward one of Jesse’s sons who looked the part. “But the LORD said to Samuel, ‘Do not consider his appearance or his height, for I have rejected him. The LORD does not look at the things people look at. People look at the outward appearance, but the LORD looks at the heart.'” (1 Sam. 16:7)

Because God prioritizes the heart, we should guard our hearts (Prov. 4:23), preparing our hearts so we are fit for ministry. Before considering how we do that, we should learn more about our need for heart preparation.

Lessons from the Bible Showing the Need for Heart Preparation

Page through the Old Testament and you’ll clearly see the hazards of not preparing your heart and the value of heart preparation. Here are a few example:

The Israelites of old provide an example of what happens when people’s hearts are not prepared. Though God made a covenant with them, protected and provided for them in miraculous ways, the people forgot God and persistently failed to follow Him. Then, instead of experiencing God’s blessing, they received His discipline. Psalm 78:8 gives the reason for their unfaithfulness. — “A stubborn and rebellious generation, a generation that did not prepare its heart …” (NASB)

God chose David as their king who “shepherded them with integrity of heart” (Ps. 78:70-72) because of his heart, not because of his stature or other outward signs of accomplishment (1 Sam. 16:7). — “God testified concerning him: ‘I have found David son of Jesse, a man after my own heart; he will do everything I want him to do.'” (Acts 13:22). — David wasn’t perfect but with a heart so bent toward God, it didn’t take long for him to repent of his sin, get right with God, and be back on track.

Rehoboam gives us an example of an individual leader, a king, who started out well but after just a few years, lost His way (2 Chron. 11:17). 2 Chronicles 12:14 provides the reason. — “And he did evil, because he prepared not his heart to seek the LORD.” (KJV) — Rehoboam did humble himself before the Lord and was spared some of the severity of God’s judgment but still faced negative consequences (2 Chron. 12:5-8).

In both of the more negative examples, the same Hebrew word, kuwn, is used about not preparing their hearts to follow, or seek the Lord. If, in our hearts, we are not firmly established, or set on following after the Lord, we too could find ourselves turning away from God and His ways. We must value heart preparation, not just “going to church” or doing ministry. We must focus on what’s inside, not just learning new skills. If we don’t, we could find ourselves in the same predicament.

How to Prepare Our Hearts

We prepare our hearts is by making regular and consistent interaction with God in His Word a priority. Learn from the above examples:

The safeguard for the Israelites not becoming “like their ancestors” (Ps. 78:8) would be that they make learning about Him and His ways a priority for both themselves and the generations to come (Ps. 78:1-7).

What led to Rehoboam’s heart failure was that “After Rehoboam’s position as king was established and he had become strong, he and all Israel with him abandoned the law of the LORD.” (2 Chron. 12:1).

If we don’t make God’s Word a priority in our lives, we can’t expect our hearts will be prepared, or set, on following Him. — “But whoever looks intently into the perfect law that gives freedom, and continues in it – not forgetting what they have heard, but doing it – they will be blessed in what they do.” (James 1:25)

We prepare our hearts through regular and consistent interaction with God in prayer.

Read through the Psalms and you will find King David constantly turning to God in prayer. He would also exhort the people, “Trust in him at all times, you people; pour out your hearts to him, for God is our refuge.” (Ps. 62:8). He asked God, “Search me, God, and know my heart; test me and know my anxious thoughts. See if there is any offensive way in me, and lead me in the way everlasting.” (Ps. 139:23-24). He knew that what was on the inside of him mattered. He valued heart preparation.

Let’s not become so busy “doing” ministry that we lack time and energy to spend with God in His Word and in prayer. We need to make this kind of heart preparation a priority!

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The Value of Heart Preparation

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In ministry we can spend a lot of time in preparation for what needs to be done … preparing a lesson or sermon, setting up a room, learning new skills, making sure everyone’s safe, etc. But, how much attention do we give to heart preparation? — our own hearts as well as the hearts of those we serve?

What is Heart Preparation & Why Value It?

Heart Preparation is about Sowing Good into our Lives
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Preparing our hearts is about sowing good into our lives. The good we need to sow into our lives is that which aligns with God and His Word. We’re talking about the heart qualities we need, not just what we do.

The good man brings good things out of the good stored up in his heart, and the evil man brings evil things out of the evil stored up in his heart. For out of the overflow of his heart his mouth speaks. (Lk. 6:45)

Heart preparation is also about guarding our heart so it stays focused on the Lord. It’s about watching over or protecting our hearts, being careful we don’t sow into our lives those destructive, ungodly influences that block or hinder us from focusing on Him. We’re talking about being vigilant as well as diligent and intentional about what we sow into our hearts. We must always remember that we reap what we sow.

Above all else, guard your heart, for it is the wellspring of life. (Prov. 4:23)

God looks for people whose heart is right with Him (1 Sam. 16:7; Prov. 21:2). It’s what He values, so we should too.

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A Changing Church Still Maintains God’s Primary Purposes

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Resources about God's Purposes
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While much will change in our churches, not everything must or should change. For example, God’s primary purposes for His people to love God with all of who we are and to love others (Matt. 22:37-40), remains the top priority.

Read: Have a Church Purpose Based on the Greatest Commandments to Love?

Any changes we make need to align with this primary purpose for without love, we’re just “a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal” (1 Cor. 13:1-3).

How Do We Maintain God’s Primary Purposes Despite the Need to Change the Way We “Do” Church?

While we might not be able to “do” church as usual, we can still be the Church by fulfilling God’s purposes to love.

We have many, many ways to express love to God. It might look different, but as His people, we still make it a priority to demonstrate our love to God.

The question isn’t “if” we worship but rather “how” we can do it in ways that are safe, considerate, and respectful for worship leaders as well as the Body.

The question isn’t “if” we help people learn about God but rather what the best platforms might be for doing that.

The question isn’t “if” we pray together as a church but rather when and where.

And, we still have many ways to show God’s love to one another. It might require more planning and creativity but loving one another as He loves remains a priority.

The question isn’t “if” we can do outreach but rather what the most effective means of doing so might be.

The question isn’t “if” we fellowship with one another but rather the format ongoing interaction with each other might have to take.

The question isn’t “if” we help one another in practical ways (benevolence) but rather how to best utilize the resources we have in the context in which we live.

We’ve grown accustom to worshiping, Bible learning, praying, outreach, fellowship, and benevolence happening in certain ways. Perhaps it’s time to remember “why” we do these things — to show love to God and people. Like the Church of Ephesus, in Revelation 2, we can be “doing” all the right things, even endure hardship, yet miss the mark if our love has grown cold.

As we navigate changes ahead, let’s view them as opportunities to re-examine our motivations and priorities. If we’re having a difficult time letting go of old strategies and programs, let’s ask why.

Resources to Help Maintain God’s Purposes to Love:

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Sowing & Reaping

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The concept of sowing and reaping originated with God.

Do not be deceived: God cannot be mocked. A man reaps what he sows. Whoever sows to please their flesh, from the flesh will reap destruction; whoever sows to please the Spirit, from the Spirit will reap eternal life. Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up. (Gal. 6:7-9)

Implications of the Principle of Sowing & Reaping for Believers

As believers, we choose whether or not to engage in activities that have the potential of bringing about a lot of good for ourselves and others, as well as bringing glory to God. But, we must be careful, for even “Christian activities” can be done in a way that pleases the flesh rather than pleasing the Spirit. Here’s what we need to remember:

1) Outward appearances don’t impress God. He “weighs the heart” (Prov. 21:2). So, “Do not be deceived: God cannot be mocked. A man reaps what he sows.”

We might fool people by doing all the right things but eventually we will reap what we’ve sown. — A good man brings good things out of the good stored up in his heart, and an evil man brings evil things out of the evil stored up in his heart. For the mouth speaks what the heart is full of. (Lk. 6:45)

2) What we sow into our lives will ultimately reveal itself for what it is. “Whoever sows to please their flesh, from the flesh will reap destruction; whoever sows to please the Spirit, from the Spirit will reap eternal life.”

We do not always see the good, or harm, our lives might bring but in the end, it will either count for eternity or not. — If anyone builds on this foundation using gold, silver, costly stones, wood, hay or straw, their work will be shown for what it is, because the Day will bring it to light. It will be revealed with fire, and the fire will test the quality of each person’s work. If what has been built survives, the builder will receive a reward. If it is burned up, the builder will suffer loss but yet will be saved – even though only as one escaping through the flames. (1 Cor. 3:12-15)

3) Since we will not always reap immediate fruit, it’s important we continue sowing good “for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up.”

We will be more likely to persevere when we do what we do with the right motives, perspective, and attitudes. We will be less likely to persevere when our heart isn’t into it for everything we do flows from the heart (Prov. 4:23).

Sowing & Reaping - So Good into Our Lives

Sowing Good into Our Lives Discipleship Acrostics looks at what believers do (Bible reading/study, character development, giving, outreach, prayer, relationship building, serving, and worship) in light of good traits that need to be sown into these activities.

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Worship a Priority?

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Loving God Make Worship a Priority

How can we love God with all of who we are (Matt. 22:37) and not spend time telling Him what we think of Him, how much we adore Him? Making worship a priority seems to be the logical response.

9 Biblical Reasons to Make Worship a Priority

A walk through the Bible shows how much of a priority worship should be for God’s people.

  1. Refusal to worship caused Satan’s fall. (Isa. 14:12-14)
  1. Worship was central in the Old Testament law. (Ex. 20:1-7; 34:14)
  1. God gave Moses detailed plans for tabernacle worship. (Ex. 25-30)
  1. God gave David detailed plans for temple worship. (1 Chron. 22-26)
  1. Israel was judged because they did not worship God. (2 Chron. 7:21-22; 24:18; Jer. 16:10-11; 22:8-9)
  1. People have risked their lives rather than stop worshiping God. (Dan. 3:10-18, 28; 6:1-28)
  1. Jesus lived to glorify the Father. (Jn. 2:13-17; 8:29; 13:31-32; 17:1)
  1. Worship was an integral part of early church life. (Acts 2:42-47)
  1. Worship will continue into eternity. (Rev. 4:10-11; 7:11-12; 11:16-17; 19:4-8)

As we see throughout Scripture, we will put no other God before Him when we love Him with ALL of our affection, ALL of our very being — now and forevermore.

This content on worship, along with some other thoughts on worship, is included in the Church Purpose Manual, as one of the ways we fulfill our purpose to love God.

Some resources on worship:

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