Category Archives: Spiritual Gifts – Fit in Ministry

The Spiritual Gift of Mercy Defined

to be sensitive toward those who are suffering, whether physically, mentally, or emotionally, so as to feel genuine sympathy with their misery, speaking words of compassion but more caring for them with deeds of love to help alleviate their distress

Examples of God Using People with the Gift of Mercy

Servant #1:  He was a teenager, one with ADHD.  He would often find himself in trouble at school and at church.  He could be self-absorbed, self-gratifying, and lacking in self-control.  Yet, when he saw someone in need, his heart went out to them and he wanted to do something to help.

Servant #2: In her eighties, she would visit people in nursing homes.  “Those poor old souls,” you could hear her say, as she pondered the conditions some of them were experiencing.  Her heart ached over their loneliness and losses and she wanted to be there to comfort them and let them know that someone cared.

Both of these servants were in a stage of life that presented their own needs, yet when they saw others in need were able to step outside of themselves with the compassion of Christ.  These individuals were years apart, yet both served the Lord.  Gifts are not age specific.  Nor are they held back from those with special needs or disabilities.  When it comes to having or using spiritual gifts, the issue is if you know the Lord.

Lesson to be learned:

Let’s provide opportunity for all to serve.  Children and teens who know the Lord have much to offer right now.  They are members of the church of today, not merely the church of tomorrow.  We should come alongside of them, mentoring and discipling them to use their gifts.  Our senior citizens should not be shelved simply because they are old.  They have much to offer.  The psalmist wrote “Even when I am old and gray, do not forsake me, O God, till I declare your power to the next generation, your might to all who are to come” (Ps. 71:18).  Proverbs 16:31 adds, “Gray hair is a crown of splendor.”  And, people with special needs often teach us and minister in our lives so much more than we might imagine.  Particularly when it comes to spiritual gifts, why wouldn’t we expect God to use believers with special needs?  Do we really get that a spiritual gift is a “divine empwerment bestowed on each believer”?

Get this example of the spiritual gift of mercy in use, along with 20 other gifts, in the Ministry Handbook: Spiritual Gifts in Use. In addition, the handbook suggests spiritual gifts most typically used in 16 broad ministry areas and 27 specific tasks that may need to be accomplished in most of those areas.

The Spiritual Gift of Administration Defined

to steer the body toward the accomplishment of God-given goals and directives by planning, organizing, and supervising others

Examples of How the Gift of Administration Can be Used with or without being in a Position of Leadership

Servant #1:  This person came alongside of his pastor who was not administratively inclined in a way that made the pastor look more efficient.  He coordinated tasks behind-the-scenes, reminding the pastor of the various details that needed attention.  He was not on staff, nor had any kind of title for what he did.

Servant #2:  This person took on a volunteer position as the Director of VBS in her church.  She planned, recruited, and coordinated all the various facets of Vacation Bible School.  During VBS you wouldn’t have even known she was at the helm as she continued to work behind-the-scenes making sure everything went smoothly … and it did.

Servant #3:  This person, me, worked full-time in a church as a Director of Christian Education. Prior to working for the church I revamped their children’s ministry, investing many hours into planning strategies to implement a more discipleship-oriented ministry.  I was not their Children’s Director, simply someone who volunteered time to get it off the ground and delegated responsibilities to others.  Now, as Director of Ministry Tools Resource Center, I continue to find myself planning, organizing, and coordinating efforts to efficiently use the resources and means God has given the ministry to help equip others.

All of these servants have the spiritual gift of administration but they are not all in leadership “positions” or roles.  They would not all be labeled as administrators but nonetheless do administrative work.

Lesson to be learned:

Let’s be careful we do not pigeon-hole the use of spiritual gifts into positions.  A spiritual gift can be used in a paid or volunteer position, full or part-time.  A spiritual gift can be used by someone with or without a title, in a recognized ministry position or not.

Get this example of the ways the spiritual gift of administration can be used, along with 20 other gifts, in the Ministry Handbook: Spiritual Gifts in Use. In addition, the handbook suggests spiritual gifts most typically used in 16 broad ministry areas and 27 specific tasks that may need to be accomplished in most of those areas.

The Spiritual Gift of Giving Defined

to share what material resources you have with liberality and cheerfulness without thought of return

Examples Showing How the Gift of Giving Isn’t Dependent on Having a High Income

Servant #1:  This person held a high paying, executive job in a major corporation.  When I first began Ministry Tools Resource Center, stepping out in faith with little financial resources, I received several very large gifts from this person at critical junctions.  He tried to give anonymously but I did find out who it was and was able to thank him.  What a blessing!

Servant #2:  This person was retired and on a limited income.  Regardless, she repeatedly purchased extra food at the grocery store and gave me her surplus knowing that I too was on a limited income because of being in ministry.  Consequently, money that would have been spent on groceries could go toward other bills.  What a blessing!

Both of these servants had the spiritual gift of giving.  One was able to give big and the other in less substantial ways.  The end result, however, was the same with both.  I was blessed!  I experienced God’s faithfulness to me through both of these servants, confirming His direction in my life to do this ministry.

Lesson to be learned:

Let’s not look at what we have, or don’t have, and say God can’t use us.  The amount is not the issue but rather being used by God to bring about eternal good.  Sometimes He will use the means of those who are rich and sometimes He will use the means of those who are poor.  If He is the one using what is in our hands, it is significant.

Get this example of the spiritual gift of giving in use, along with 20 other gifts, in the Ministry Handbook: Spiritual Gifts in Use. In addition, the handbook suggests spiritual gifts most typically used in 16 broad ministry areas and 27 specific tasks that may need to be accomplished in most of those areas.

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The Spiritual Gift of Exhortation Defined

to come along side of someone with words of encouragement, comfort, consolation, and counsel to help them be all God wants them to be

Examples of Servants of God Using the Gift of Exhortation in Varying Ways

Servant #1:  This person enjoys counseling others to reach their potential in Christ, to make decisions that line up with His Word, and to trust Him with their past, present, and future.  This servant of God prays with people as they seek to process life in healthier ways.

Servant #2:  This person loves to teach children and has done so for many years.  She was quite surprised, though, to recently find out she did not have the gift of teaching but rather the spiritual gift of exhortation.  After explaining the difference between teaching and exhortation and how teaching can be a platform for using the gift of exhortation, she could see that indeed this was her gifting. (For an explanation of these differences go to: Speaking Types of Spiritual Gifts)

Servant #3:  This person makes up a bag of encouraging Bible verses for people going on short term mission trips to take with them and read one each day.  People return commenting how the verses were just what they needed for each day.

All of these servants have the spiritual gift of exhortation but use it in different ways.

Lesson to be learned:

Let’s be careful we do not limit how God might want to use us by too narrowly defining how a spiritual gift can be exercised.

Get this example of the ways the spiritual gift of exhortation can be used, along with 20 other gifts, in the Ministry Handbook: Spiritual Gifts in Use. In addition, the handbook suggests spiritual gifts most typically used in 16 broad ministry areas and 27 specific tasks that may need to be accomplished in most of those areas.

Your life experiences are a piece of the puzzle that makes up your ministry profile that God uses to prepare you for serving and give you perspective in it.  What you believe about God will help determine how you handle your life circumstances … past, present, and future.

Will you wallow in self-pity over what has happened or rise victorious and let Him use what has happened to you to minister to others?  Will you question His love and doubt His plan for your life or will you trust in His sovereignty and rely on His faithfulness?  Will you use your life circumstances as an excuse for not serving or will you step out in faith relying on His grace and power?

Bible Verses to Assure Us that Our Life Experience Prepare Us for Ministry

Read the following Scripture and consider how this kind of God is capable of using both the good and bad of your life to His glory as you serve Him.

Ps. 139:1-16a –  He is fully aware of what is happening with us. Nothing that happens escapes His notice.  He is omniscient, all knowing.

Ps. 139:16 – He pre-determined our days.  He is sovereign.

Ps. 139:17-18 – He cares so much about us, He is constantly thinking about us. He is loving.

Rom. 8:28 – He always works on our behalf.  He is good and wise.

Rom. 8:31-39  – He holds on to us no matter what happens.  Nothing can separate us from Him.

2 Cor. 1:3-4  –  He doesn’t remove trouble from our lives but is with us through it, giving us all we need to rise above.  He is the provider.

Resources to Help You Work Through Reactions to Your Life Experiences:

Books on letting go of the past

Who you are will help to determine how you do ministry.  God uses the whole of who you are so your personality is a defining part of your ministry profile.  Two people with the same spiritual gifts in the identical measure could look different in the way they express their gifts because of their personalities.

Bible Verses Showing Why Your Personality is a Defining Part of Your Ministry

Read the following Scripture and consider God’s perspective on your personality:

Ps. 139:13-14 – He created our innermost being.  Who we are is no accident and is intended to be used for His glory.  — Let’s yield to Him and not make excuses for ourselves.

Matt. 22:37 – He commands that all of who we are is to go into loving and serving Him.  — Let’s yield to Him and not consider this optional.

Gal. 5:16-26 – He provides His Spirit to help us turn from the dysfunctional aspects and replace them with good fruit.  — Let’s yield to Him and not get in the way of effective service.

Resources to Help You Understand Your Personality Temperament:

List of books from different approaches.