What Kind of Leader Are You?

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Training Category: Leadership Ministry

Perhaps you sense God calling you to be a leader. The kind of leader you will tend to be could grow out of the spiritual gifts He has given you and/or your personality. For more about finding your best fit, read: Ministry Profile Overview

Kind of Leader Based on Spiritual Gifts

You will find three different spiritual gifts most frequently used by God in those He calls to be leaders in His Church. (Click on links to learn more about the gifts.)

People with the spiritual gift of leadership tend to be visionary leaders (goal-oriented).

People with the spiritual gift of administration tend to be administrative leaders (task-oriented).

People with the spiritual gift of pastor tend to be shepherding leaders (people-oriented).

Personality Can Affect the Kind of Leader You Are

To learn more about the different types of personalities mentioned below, go to: Ministry Profile: How Your Personality Fits

  • If you have a more goal-oriented bent of the Choleric temperament (D of DISC), you could tend to be a visionary leader.
  • If you have the discipline and resourcefulness of the choleric (D of DISC) or the organized efficiency of the phlegmatic (S of DISC) or the attention to detail of the melancholic (C of DISC), you could tend to be an administrative leader.
  • If you have the people-oriented ways of the sanguine (I of DISC) or phlegmatic (S of DISC) temperaments, you could tend to be a shepherding leader.

God May Use You to Provide More Than One Type of Leadership

A person could have a combination of the typical leadership gifts hence suggesting that God could want him/her to be involved in leadership capacities that require a blend of two or even the three types of leadership.

A person could have a spiritual gift that takes him/her into one type of leadership and a personality that enables him/her to do another type of leadership, suggesting that God could want him/her to be involved in leadership capacities that require a blend of two or even three types of leadership.

God May Want You to Look to Others to Bring More Balance

If you don’t have a combination of spiritual gifts or personality that bring in the dynamic of each type of leadership, the ministry could lack balance.

Kinds of Leaders Work Toward Balanced Church Leadership
The Leadership Ministry Manual looks at what happens in a broad sense when one of these types of leadership is missing.

The Balance in Church Leadership Based on Spiritual Gifting considers what happens in specific leadership tasks and responsibilities.

(These resources can be ordered separately by clicking on the links above but the Balanced Church Leadership Bundle will provide a more comprehensive sense of the balance that can come when these leaders all work together.)

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Kinds of Leadership a Ministry Needs

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Training Category: Leadership Ministry

While the various ministries in our churches target different objectives and use different approaches, there are some essentials each needs if we’re going to experience balance, health, and growth. Different types of leaders are needed to meet all these needs.

What Almost Any Kind of Ministry Needs & The Kind of Leadership That Will Tend to Provide It

Almost any kind of ministry needs direction and development.

Visionary leaders are best at providing this kind of leadership.

Almost any kind of ministry needs planning and coordination of the programs and procedures.

Administrative leaders are best at providing this kind of leadership.

Almost any kind of ministry needs someone responsible for making sure the needs of its staff and people are attended to and met.

Shepherding leaders are best at providing this kind of leadership.

The balance, health, and growth of each ministry requires all types of leadership working in unity.

Learn more: Leadership Ministry: Types of Leaders

In the next post we’ll ask, What Kind of Leader Are You?, with consideration given to spiritual gifting and personality most commonly found in these different types of leaders.

Balance, Health, and Growth Comes When All These Needs are Met

Balanced Church Leadership When Kinds of Leaders Work TogetherCheck out the Leadership Ministry Manual for how these different leaders affect church life in general.

Check out the Balance in Church Leadership Based on Spiritual Gifting resource for how they affect specific leadership tasks and responsibilities.

(These resources can be ordered separately by clicking on the links above or as the Balanced Church Leadership Bundle.)

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Looking for a Mentor?

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Looking for a MentorPerhaps you read the article on Mentoring Relationships as a Shepherding Venue and it stirred up a desire for that kind of guidance or ministry coaching. Or, maybe you read the posts listed below under Related Posts on older men and women mentoring younger, based on Titus 2, and sensed your own need to be mentored. But, how do you go about looking for a mentor?

Titus 2 does not directly speak to people who want to be mentored. It is more geared to leaders who are to teach older men and women to live godly lives, from the inside out, so that they will be good role models and encouragers of those who are younger. This passage does not provide instruction for how that connection is to be made but it could be used to help us know the kind of person who would make a good mentor.

Points to Consider in Looking for a Mentor

Generally a person of the same gender works best so as to avoid possible temptations and also not to give the wrong impression if seen together. Notice that Titus 2 links older women with younger women and also infers that older men are to be encouraging younger men in their walk.

Looking for a mentor whom you can respect because he/she lives a godly life lines up with the kind of people suggested in Titus 2.

Men who are “temperate, worthy of respect, self-controlled, and sound in faith, in love and in endurance” (Titus 2:2)

Women who are “reverent in the way they live, not to be slanderers or addicted to much wine, but to teach what is good” (Titus 2:3)

The person doesn’t always have to be physically older than you but spiritually and experientially more advanced. You may not always be able to find someone in the same line of ministry with more experience but do need someone able to point you to God as you seek to learn and grow in your walk.

Someone different than you, yet not so different you can’t gel, will tend to bring the greatest challenge to your life. You want a good fit, which isn’t necessarily someone just like you, but rather a person who is able to stretch you so you can grow.

Plan for Finding a Mentor

You might want a step by step plan for finding a mentor. However, passages like Titus 2 and others used to suggest the need for mentoring, do not provide instructions for how to make that connection. Titus 2 addresses leaders who are to teach older men and women to live godly lives, from the inside out, so that they will be good role models and encouragers of those who are younger. It does not directly speak to people who want to be mentored.

Consequently, the best way to find a mentor may be to pray about it and trust God to open the doors. Remember what God says about making decisions:

If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you. (James 1:5)

Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight. (Prov. 3:5-6)

After praying, ask those you sense would be a good mentor to pray about, if it is something God would have them do. Perhaps ask a few people and then give time and space for God to work in their hearts about it. You may also want to ask your Church leadership to pray with you about this as well. Continue in prayer yourself that God would motivate the right person.

Certainly in looking for a mentor you want someone who not just wants to mentor you, and is ready to do so, but also whom God deems as the best fit. Be aware, however, that He might raise up someone you would least expect. God sees the big picture. His choices may differ from our expectations. See 1 Corinthians 1:26-31 for how His standards differ from ours. Praying and trusting God in our pursuit of a mentor only makes sense.

For More on Mentoring: Resources for Discipleship & Shepherding Ministry

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What’s at the Root?

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Ministry doesn’t always go as expected. Parenting doesn’t always produce the results you hoped for. Relationships don’t always go smoothly.

Rather than giving up or despairing, see if you can get to the root of what went wrong. Sometimes we merely deal in symptoms rather than the real issue. Then we wonder why lasting change doesn’t come. We may be applying the wrong solutions because we are staying on the surface. Take time to ask, “What’s at the Root?”

Ask What's at the Root of Problems

Examples of Getting to the Root Issue

These examples will not cover everything you might face. And, the root cause in these various situations could be different in your case.

  • A ministry event or class didn’t go well.

Surface: It was a bad idea so I won’t do that again.
Root: Perhaps you didn’t invest sufficient time into planning and/or praying.
Solution: Learn to set priorities, to better manage your time, and be prepared. Always pray.
Resource: Time Management for Teachers Worksheet

  • People are getting disillusioned with serving in the Church.

Surface: They don’t love the Lord as they should so we’ll teach/preach more to build their faith and love.
Root: Maybe people aren’t doing what lines up with their spiritual gifting, passions, and personality.
Solution: Help people find their best fit in ministry.
Resource: Finding Your Best Fit in Ministry Book

  • Children don’t sit still and pay attention to the Bible lesson.

Surface: Kids are so disrespectful today so I will have to discipline them more.
Root: Possibly you aren’t teaching in accordance with their age level developmental need for activity.
Solution: Use more hands-on Bible learning activities.
Resource: Age Level Teacher Training Resources

  • God doesn’t seem to be answering your prayers.

Surface: God doesn’t care so it doesn’t matter if I pray.
Root: Maybe you aren’t praying in keeping with God’s character or will.
Solution: Learn more about God and His Word.
Article: Power in Prayer as We Adhere to Biblical Principles on Praying

  • Some people in your church who claim to be Christians aren’t safe to around.

Surface: They don’t belong here so we’ll be more protective until they leave.
Root: Perhaps people haven’t been discipled as they should.
Solution: Follow the Great Commission to its fullest extent which takes people beyond getting saved to spiritually growing and obeying Him as Lord of their lives.
Article: Safety Because of the Great Commission

  • People are so busy and it’s affecting recruitment and the fulfillment of Body Life as God designed it.

Surface: People aren’t putting God first so we’ll teach/preach more about prioritizing God and His will.
Root: Possibly they don’t have good role models of how to live in ways that prioritize what’s most important.
Solution: Begin with yourself and your church to control your schedule so it is more purposeful and considerate.
Articles: Purposeful Scheduling  and  Considerate Scheduling

Your child keeps falling back into the same bad behavior even though you keep disciplining.

Surface: I’m not being hard enough on him/her so I’ll enforce stricter consequences.
Root: Maybe the child is harboring resentment, hurts, or anger.
Solution: Focus on the heart, not just the behavior.
Resource: Parenting is Heart Work (Clicking on this link will take you to one of our affiliate stores.)

Whatever the circumstance, ask God to get you beyond the surface to the root cause. Continue to pray about it to determine the best course of action based on the real issue. Look for resources that can help you learn and grow in this area.

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Balancing Pastoral Duties

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Juggling Pastoral Responsibilities

In many churches a lot of pressure can be put on pastors to do almost everything from preaching to counseling, visitation, administration, and more. Recently the question was posed on how the pastor, as a shepherd, can balance it all. What kind of limits should be established? The question needs to be answered with other questions.

Questions Pastors Should Ask in Seeking to Balance Pastoral Duties:

1) What is the biblical role of a pastor?

The term pastor means to shepherd. Hence, a pastor tends to sheep. Jesus told Peter to feed his sheep (Jn. 21:15-17). Certainly preaching and teaching the Word is a major responsibility. (For more read: Shepherding Ministry Priorities) But, sheep also need to be cared for, guided, and protected. (For more read: Duties of a Shepherd) The question, however, is whether the person in the position of pastor has to do it all. If so, how does this person juggle it all?

2) What are the pastor’s spiritual gifts?

Not all people in the position of pastor have the spiritual gift of pastor. Consequently, the person in this position may gravitate toward certain aspects of shepherding more than others depending on gifting. For a better understanding of how the different gifts might be reflected in someone in the role of pastor, read: Shepherding Ministry Venue – Pastors

3) What were the expectations when first hired to be the pastor?

A pastor’s priorities, in part, can be determined by the job description provided at hiring. If counseling, visitation, and the like were not emphasized in it but you find people expecting too much of you now, perhaps it is time to sit down with other church leaders and review your job description. Even if you believe the expectations originally provided to you do not reflect the biblical role of a pastor or if you have found that they do not fit your gifting, you need to be respectful and remember that you accepted the position under those conditions. Meet with church leaders to discuss it with them to see if any changes can be made but certainly do not divide the church over it.

4) What responsibilities should be priorities?

People do not always truly grasp that a pastor can’t do it all. They need to learn that the answer to the first three questions must guide the pastor’s priorities. But, regardless of the role the pastor takes, regardless of one’s gifting and job description, all the varying aspects of feeding, caring for, protecting, and guiding the sheep still need to be accomplished. This is where an understanding of the priesthood of all believers comes in, everybody doing their part so the Body grows (Eph. 4:16). Part of the pastor’s role needs to be to equip people to serve in these ways so the church has a network of shepherds and not one person trying to do it all. (For more read: Shepherding Venue – Equipping) For some churches, this might require a cultural shift which can take time and much patience.

5) Who can come alongside to assist in shepherding the flock and in what capacities?

If you currently have others who can share the counseling load, then as lead pastor, you can go lighter on that aspect in your shepherding role. If you don’t, while equipping others to fulfill that role, you may find yourself with a heavier counseling or visitation load or having to refer people to counselors outside of your church. People may not, however, have the money for professional counseling. Until others within your church are equipped in this way, can the church help people financially, if needed, to go outside of the church?

The needs of people are great. Pastors cannot meet all of those needs. If you try to do it all, other important responsibilities will not get accomplished, at least not as well as they could or should. Counseling, visitation, and other practical meeting of needs can take a lot of time.

Part of finding the balance is for the leadership of the church to determine what your church most needs in a pastor and then plan around those priorities. The less counseling, visitation, and the like the pastor does, however, the more you need to be sure to equip others to do so. That doesn’t mean the pastor has to do all the training but that you at least set a process in motion for them to be trained. Ephesians 4:11-12 says that God gave “… pastors and teachers, to equip his people for works of service, so that the body of Christ may be built up.” The bottom line should be that needs are getting met, not who meets them.

Looking for help with managing your time, go to: Time Management Resources

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Intercessory Types of Spiritual Gifts

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Within the Church we need people who believe God can move mountains, that He can do that which is seemingly impossible. These people spur others on to trusting God for great things, often taking us out of our comfort zones and shaking up our status quo. They often have one of the following gifts. Click on the gifts to learn where these gifts are listed in Scripture and possible definitions. (Use the browser’s back button to return to this post.)

Intercessory Types of Spiritual Giftsfaith
healings
miracles

These gifts come with a persuasion that God is all-powerful. Consequently, people with the above spiritual gifts usually spend much time in prayer asking God to accomplish that which He is able to do. These gifts are therefore being grouped together as intercessory types of spiritual gifts.

The Ministry Handbook: Spiritual Gifts in Use describes how the focus of their prayers is what tends to distinguish these gifts from each other. The resource also look at the other gifts listed in Scripture and helps you determine the different ministries for which the gifts may be best suited.

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